VA benefits for senior care in New Jersey include home-based primary care, adult day health care, VA and contracted nursing homes, respite care, and Veteran-Directed Care.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). VA Nursing Homes And Assisted Living. va.gov. Retrieved Sep 29, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/health-care/about-va-health-benefits/long-term-care/ A veteran or surviving spouse who gets a VA pension may also qualify for Aid and Attendance, an increased monthly payment added to that pension.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Eligibility For Veterans Pension. va.gov. Retrieved Jul 31, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/pension/eligibility/,U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Current Pension Rates For Veterans. va.gov. Retrieved Sep 3, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/pension/veterans-pension-rates/
In This Guide
- Key Takeaways
- VA Senior Care Programs
- New Jersey Veterans Memorial Homes
- Aid and Attendance
- Veteran-Directed Care
- Community Care (MISSION Act)
- How VA Benefits Work with Medicare and Medicaid
- How to Get Started
- Frequently Asked Questions
- Next Steps
VA Senior Care Benefits in New Jersey: Long-Term Care Programs
The VA offers multiple long-term care programs.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). VA Nursing Homes And Assisted Living. va.gov. Retrieved Sep 29, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/health-care/about-va-health-benefits/long-term-care/ Access isn't automatic once a veteran is enrolled: VA also has to conclude the veteran needs that specific service for their ongoing treatment and personal care, and the service, or a space in the care setting, has to be available near them. The VA says it may also consider other factors, like the veteran's service-connected disability status or insurance coverage.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Current VA Health Care Copay Rates. va.gov. Retrieved Oct 12, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/health-care/copay-rates/
Home Based Primary Care (HBPC)
A VA doctor leads a health care team that provides services in the veteran's home, such as nursing care, physical therapy, and help with daily tasks.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). VA Nursing Homes And Assisted Living. va.gov. Retrieved Sep 29, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/health-care/about-va-health-benefits/long-term-care/
HBPC is a VA service, not home health care through Medicare: VA health care and Medicare are separate federal programs, and generally they can't pay for the same service.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). VA Health Care And Other Insurance. va.gov. Retrieved Jul 15, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/resources/va-health-care-and-other-insurance/
Adult Day Health Care
Veterans attend a daytime program that offers social activities, companionship, and recreation as well as care and support.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). VA Nursing Homes And Assisted Living. va.gov. Retrieved Sep 29, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/health-care/about-va-health-benefits/long-term-care/ VA also counts a veteran's attendance at an adult day health care program as one form of home respite care for the family caregiver.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). VA Family Caregiver Assistance Program (PCAFC) — Veterans Affairs. va.gov. Retrieved Sep 2, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/family-and-caregiver-benefits/health-and-disability/comprehensive-assistance-for-family-caregivers/
Community Living Centers (VA Nursing Homes)
Community Living Centers are VA-run nursing centers, designed to feel like home, that provide nursing-home-level care.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). VA Nursing Homes And Assisted Living. va.gov. Retrieved Sep 29, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/health-care/about-va-health-benefits/long-term-care/
A CLC stay can be short-term or long-term.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Current VA Health Care Copay Rates. va.gov. Retrieved Oct 12, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/health-care/copay-rates/ VA's nursing home respite care can also take place in a CLC.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). VA Family Caregiver Assistance Program (PCAFC) — Veterans Affairs. va.gov. Retrieved Sep 2, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/family-and-caregiver-benefits/health-and-disability/comprehensive-assistance-for-family-caregivers/
Community Nursing Home Program
The VA contracts with community (non-VA) nursing homes so veterans can get nursing home care near home.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). VA Nursing Homes And Assisted Living. va.gov. Retrieved Sep 29, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/health-care/about-va-health-benefits/long-term-care/ Access follows the same enrollment, need, and availability test described at the top of this section. For nursing home care specifically, whether VA benefits help pay depends on the veteran's income and the level of their service-connected disability.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Current VA Health Care Copay Rates. va.gov. Retrieved Oct 12, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/health-care/copay-rates/ On cost, a veteran won't owe a copay for extended care for the first 21 days of care in a 12-month period; starting on the 22nd day, the VA bases the copay on the level of care being received and the financial information the veteran provides on the Application for Extended Care Services (VA Form 10-10EC). Some veterans don't have to pay copays at all: they are exempt because of their disability rating, income level, or special eligibility factors.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Current VA Health Care Copay Rates. va.gov. Retrieved Oct 12, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/health-care/copay-rates/
Respite Care
All enrolled veterans are eligible for VA respite care if they meet the clinical criteria and it is available, though respite from a community agency, adult day health care center, or nursing home also requires community care eligibility. Eligible Primary Family Caregivers in the VA's Program of Comprehensive Assistance for Family Caregivers (PCAFC) receive at least 30 days of respite care per year.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). VA Family Caregiver Assistance Program (PCAFC) — Veterans Affairs. va.gov. Retrieved Sep 2, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/family-and-caregiver-benefits/health-and-disability/comprehensive-assistance-for-family-caregivers/ Respite can be at home (a substitute caregiver, or an adult day health care program) or a nursing home stay in a CLC or community nursing home while the family is out of town for a few days, and VA's 2026 copay page lists overnight and daily respite as available up to 30 days each calendar year.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). VA Family Caregiver Assistance Program (PCAFC) — Veterans Affairs. va.gov. Retrieved Sep 2, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/family-and-caregiver-benefits/health-and-disability/comprehensive-assistance-for-family-caregivers/ Unless the veteran is exempt, a copay may apply after the first 21 days of extended care in a 12-month period. To learn the amount, contact the veteran's VA social worker or case manager to complete VA Form 10-10EC, the Application for Extended Care Services; the social worker can also help arrange respite.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). VA Family Caregiver Assistance Program (PCAFC) — Veterans Affairs. va.gov. Retrieved Sep 2, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/family-and-caregiver-benefits/health-and-disability/comprehensive-assistance-for-family-caregivers/ The national VA Caregiver Support Line is 1-855-260-3274.U.S. Government Publishing Office. (2026). CMS — FY 2026 Final Hospice Wage Index (CMS-1835-F). govinfo.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://www.govinfo.gov/content/pkg/FR-2025-08-05/html/2025-14782.htm
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New Jersey Veterans Memorial Homes
New Jersey operates three state-run Veterans Memorial Homes, long-term care nursing homes for eligible veterans and their family members.State of New Jersey. (n.d.). New Jersey Veterans Memorial Homes — NJ Department of Veterans Affairs. nj.gov. Retrieved Jul 31, 2026, from https://www.nj.gov/dva/veterans/memorial-homes/ They are run by the Division of Veterans Healthcare Services within the New Jersey Department of Veterans Affairs and are inspected and licensed annually by the New Jersey Department of Health and the U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. The homes provide around-the-clock medical and nursing care from a full-time clinical staff.State of New Jersey. (n.d.). New Jersey Veterans Memorial Homes — NJ Department of Veterans Affairs. nj.gov. Retrieved Jul 31, 2026, from https://www.nj.gov/dva/veterans/memorial-homes/
| Location | Notable Details |
|---|---|
| Menlo Park (Edison, Middlesex County) | 312-bed facility, rebuilt in 1999 |
| Paramus | 336-resident facility, opened in 1986 |
| Vineland | 300-resident facility, rebuilt in 2005 |
Admission is open to veterans honorably discharged from U.S. war or peacetime service, to the veteran's spouse, and to spouses and parents of service members killed in action during a period of war (Gold Star Parents).State of New Jersey. (n.d.). New Jersey Veterans Memorial Homes — NJ Department of Veterans Affairs. nj.gov. Retrieved Jul 31, 2026, from https://www.nj.gov/dva/veterans/memorial-homes/ Each home's page says a spouse, widow, or widower must be at least 50 and married to the veteran for at least 10 years, but state law (N.J.S.38A:23-3) admits some surviving spouses at any age, so a widow or widower under 50 should ask the admissions office rather than assume they're ineligible. Applicants who lived in New Jersey for the two years before applying get preference, and residents pay according to ability, based on income. The Vineland home states its own admission rule as veterans discharged other than dishonorably who served at least 90 days during war or peacetime, spouses of veterans, and Gold Star Parents.State of New Jersey. (n.d.). New Jersey Veterans Memorial Homes — NJ Department of Veterans Affairs. nj.gov. Retrieved Jul 31, 2026, from https://www.nj.gov/dva/veterans/memorial-homes/ Admission rules differ between homes, so confirm availability and current details with the specific facility through the New Jersey Department of Veterans Affairs.
VA Aid and Attendance
The Aid and Attendance benefit is an increased monthly payment added to a VA pension, for veterans (or surviving spouses) who meet at least one aid-and-attendance requirement, such as needing another person's help with daily activities like bathing, feeding, and dressing.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Current Pension Rates For Veterans. va.gov. Retrieved Sep 3, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/pension/veterans-pension-rates/,U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Eligibility For Veterans Pension. va.gov. Retrieved Jul 31, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/pension/eligibility/
2026 Rates
| Category | Maximum Annual Pension Rate |
|---|---|
| Veteran with no dependents | $29,093 |
| Veteran with one dependent | $34,488 |
| Surviving spouse with no dependents | $18,697 |
These are the Maximum Annual Pension Rates for the period December 1, 2025 through November 30, 2026. A Maximum Annual Pension Rate is the maximum amount of pension payable, not a check anyone receives: the VA pays the difference between your income for VA purposes and that limit. By regulation, the monthly payment is the annual rate minus countable income, divided by 12 and rounded down to the whole dollar.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Current Pension Rates For Veterans. va.gov. Retrieved Sep 3, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/pension/veterans-pension-rates/
Who Qualifies
To be eligible, the veteran must:U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Eligibility For Veterans Pension. va.gov. Retrieved Jul 31, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/pension/eligibility/
- Meet one of VA's service routes, each with at least 1 day during wartime: started active duty before September 8, 1980 and served at least 90 days; started as an enlisted person after September 7, 1980 and served at least 24 months or the full period called or ordered to active duty (with some exceptions); or was an officer who started active duty after October 16, 1981 and had not previously served on active duty for at least 24 months
- Not have been discharged dishonorably
- Meet at least one of four alternatives: be 65 or older; have a permanent and total disability; be a patient in a nursing home for long-term care because of a disability; or be receiving Social Security Disability Insurance or Supplemental Security Income. Any one of the four satisfies this test on its own, so a wartime veteran under 65 who receives SSI meets this test without any disability rating.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Eligibility For Veterans Pension. va.gov. Retrieved Jul 31, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/pension/eligibility/
- Need aid and attendance: help from another person with daily activities like bathing, feeding, and dressing; staying in bed much of the day because of illness; a nursing home stay due to disability-related loss of abilities; or very limited eyesight
- Have income within VA's limits and a net worth below $163,699 (December 1, 2025 to November 30, 2026). The VA's net-worth calculation combines the claimant's and their dependents' assets and income for VA purposes; the primary home, the car, and basic home items are excluded.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Eligibility For Veterans Pension. va.gov. Retrieved Jul 31, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/pension/eligibility/,U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Current Pension Rates For Veterans. va.gov. Retrieved Sep 3, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/pension/veterans-pension-rates/
VA applies a 3-year (36-month) look-back period, counted back from the date it receives the pension claim. A transfer for less than fair market value in that window can bring a penalty period of up to 5 years when the asset, had it not been transferred, would have pushed net worth over the limit.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Eligibility For Veterans Pension. va.gov. Retrieved Jul 31, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/pension/eligibility/
How to Apply
The steps below are the pension route: the VA's condition is that you may be eligible for this benefit if you get a VA pension. Apply using VA Form 21-2680 (Examination for Housebound Status or Permanent Need for Regular Aid and Attendance), whose examination section a medical examiner fills out. Form 21-2680 also covers Aid and Attendance that will be added to monthly compensation benefits, so a veteran who receives VA disability compensation rather than a pension uses that form too. A wartime veteran pursuing the pension route who isn't already receiving a VA pension files Form 21P-527EZ (Application for Veterans Pension) as well, which is the wartime, means-tested pension application.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). VA Form 21-2680. va.gov. Retrieved Jul 31, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/forms/21-2680/ How long a decision takes, in the VA's own words, "depends." It works through claims in the order it receives them, unless a claim needs priority processing.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). VA Form 21-2680. va.gov. Retrieved Jul 31, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/forms/21-2680/
Don't do this alone. The New Jersey Department of Veterans Affairs runs a Veterans Service Office in each of the state's 21 counties, led by trained, accredited Veterans Service Officers who serve as a point of entry for veterans and their dependents to local, state, and federal benefits, programs, and services.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Get Help From A VA Accredited Representative Or VSO. va.gov. Retrieved Jul 31, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/get-help-from-accredited-representative/ Veterans' services moved to this department on January 9, 2026, when the former Department of Military and Veterans Affairs split in two.State of New Jersey. (n.d.). New Jersey Veterans Memorial Homes — NJ Department of Veterans Affairs. nj.gov. Retrieved Jul 31, 2026, from https://www.nj.gov/dva/veterans/memorial-homes/ The state's pages are silent on cost. VA's rule is that an accredited Veterans Service Organization representative's help on VA claims is always free, while an accredited attorney or claims agent can charge fees.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Get Help From A VA Accredited Representative Or VSO. va.gov. Retrieved Jul 31, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/get-help-from-accredited-representative/ That rule covers Veterans Service Organizations, not the state's county officers, so ask the office.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Get Help From A VA Accredited Representative Or VSO. va.gov. Retrieved Jul 31, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/get-help-from-accredited-representative/
For the full application walkthrough, see our VA Aid and Attendance guide.
Veteran-Directed Care
The Veteran-Directed Care (VDC) program gives veterans a flexible budget to hire their own caregivers, including family members.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Veteran-Directed Care - Geriatrics and Extended Care. va.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/geriatrics/pages/Veteran-Directed_Care.asp It's a VA Geriatrics and Extended Care (Home and Community Based Services) program for enrolled veterans of all ages: the veteran or their representative manages the budget and hires and supervises the workers, who may include family, friends, and/or neighbors.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Veteran-Directed Care - Geriatrics and Extended Care. va.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/geriatrics/pages/Veteran-Directed_Care.asp
Any enrolled veteran can use VDC if they are eligible for community care, meet the clinical criteria for the service, and the program is available in their area.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Veteran-Directed Care - Geriatrics and Extended Care. va.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/geriatrics/pages/Veteran-Directed_Care.asp VA medical centers deliver it through aging and disability network agencies, such as area agencies on aging, whose options counselors help plan care, arrange fiscal management services, and provide ongoing support.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Veteran-Directed Care - Geriatrics and Extended Care. va.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/geriatrics/pages/Veteran-Directed_Care.asp
Ask your VA medical center whether VDC is available in your area.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Veteran-Directed Care - Geriatrics and Extended Care. va.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/geriatrics/pages/Veteran-Directed_Care.asp
Community Care Through the MISSION Act
The MISSION Act (2018) expanded when veterans can receive care from community (non-VA) providers.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). VA.gov - Eligibility for community care outside VA. va.gov. Retrieved Jul 31, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/resources/eligibility-for-community-care-outside-va/ Two requirements always apply: the veteran must be enrolled in or eligible for VA health care, and must have approval from their VA health care team before getting care from a community provider, except in certain cases like urgent or emergency care.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). VA.gov - Eligibility for community care outside VA. va.gov. Retrieved Jul 31, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/resources/eligibility-for-community-care-outside-va/ Beyond that, at least one of six further conditions VA lists must be true, including:
- The VA can't offer an appointment within 20 days (primary care/mental health) or 28 days (specialty care), unless you agreed to a later date
- The average drive time from your home, as VA calculates it, exceeds 30 minutes (primary care/mental health) or 60 minutes (specialty care)
- You need a service the VA doesn't provide at any VA health facility
- You and your VA provider agree that community care is in your best medical interest
- The VA can't provide the service in a way that meets its quality standardsU.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). VA.gov - Eligibility for community care outside VA. va.gov. Retrieved Jul 31, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/resources/eligibility-for-community-care-outside-va/
On May 19, 2025, the VA implemented language from the Senator Elizabeth Dole Act (Public Law 118-210, enacted January 2, 2025) that removes the extra step of review by a second VA doctor on the "best medical interest" pathway, making it faster for eligible veterans to access community care.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). VA.gov - Eligibility for community care outside VA. va.gov. Retrieved Jul 31, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/resources/eligibility-for-community-care-outside-va/
How VA Senior Care Benefits in New Jersey Work with Medicare and Medicaid
VA benefits don't replace Medicare or Medicaid, a veteran isn't required to enroll in Medicare to keep VA health care, and a veteran or surviving spouse can qualify for and receive VA pension and Medicaid at the same time.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). VA Health Care And Other Insurance. va.gov. Retrieved Jul 15, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/resources/va-health-care-and-other-insurance/,U.S. Government Publishing Office. (n.d.). 38 CFR 3.551(i) - Certain beneficiaries receiving Medicaid-covered nursing home care ($90/month pension limit; authority 38 U.S.C. 5503) (eCFR, current edition). ecfr.gov. Retrieved Aug 3, 2026, from https://www.ecfr.gov/current/title-38/section-3.551 Generally VA and Medicare can't pay for the same service, so you choose which to use each time you get care, though Medicare may cover services the VA didn't authorize during a partly VA-authorized non-VA hospital stay. Holding VA health care is no shield against the Medicare Part B late-enrollment penalty, which grows each year you delay and lasts for the rest of your life.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). VA Health Care And Other Insurance. va.gov. Retrieved Jul 15, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/resources/va-health-care-and-other-insurance/
- VA + Medicare: Holding both is normal. Medicare pays for Medicare-covered care, and the VA pays for care it authorizes at a VA or non-VA facility. VA still encourages veterans to sign up for Medicare as soon as they can, partly because Medicare covers them if they need a non-VA hospital or doctor.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). VA Health Care And Other Insurance. va.gov. Retrieved Jul 15, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/resources/va-health-care-and-other-insurance/
- VA + Medicaid: In New Jersey, Medicaid is called NJ FamilyCare, administered by the New Jersey Department of Human Services through its Division of Medical Assistance and Health Services, with long-term care delivered through Managed Long Term Services and Supports (MLTSS). VA Aid and Attendance and NJ FamilyCare are separate programs run by different agencies under different rules, and a person can receive both at the same time.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Aid And Attendance Benefits And Housebound Allowance. va.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/pension/aid-attendance-housebound/ But the two programs count income differently, and NJ FamilyCare handles VA pension income in two steps: at the eligibility determination it applies SSI income methodologies to aged, blind, and disabled applicants (42 CFR 435.601), and under that methodology the Aid and Attendance increase is not counted toward the income limit. A state using criteria more restrictive than SSI may count it differently, so confirm the treatment with DMAHS. Once someone is eligible and living in a nursing home or other medical institution, the share-of-cost calculation must count income disregarded at the eligibility step (42 CFR 435.725), so an Aid and Attendance amount VA is still paying at the full rate can count toward what the resident owes for care; ask the county welfare agency or DMAHS how New Jersey treats it.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Aid And Attendance Benefits And Housebound Allowance. va.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/pension/aid-attendance-housebound/ For a veteran with no spouse or child in a Medicaid-covered nursing facility, federal law (38 U.S.C. 5503(d)) caps the pension at $90 a month after the month of admission, and Medicaid's payment to the facility can't be reduced by that pension.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Aid And Attendance Benefits And Housebound Allowance. va.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/pension/aid-attendance-housebound/ Whether that cap reaches a Veterans Memorial Home stay depends on VA per diem payments, so ask a Veterans Service Officer.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Aid And Attendance Benefits And Housebound Allowance. va.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/pension/aid-attendance-housebound/
- New Jersey Veterans Memorial Homes are state-run long-term care nursing homes; confirm accepted payment sources with the specific home.State of New Jersey. (n.d.). New Jersey Veterans Memorial Homes — NJ Department of Veterans Affairs. nj.gov. Retrieved Jul 31, 2026, from https://www.nj.gov/dva/veterans/memorial-homes/
Because VA pension income can affect NJ Medicaid eligibility or cost of care, the order and timing of applying for each can matter. Consult a VA-accredited representative or an elder law attorney before applying.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Aid And Attendance Benefits And Housebound Allowance. va.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/pension/aid-attendance-housebound/
How to Get Started
Confirm VA health care enrollment
If the veteran isn't already enrolled in VA health care, apply at va.gov/health-care/how-to-apply. The VA assigns a priority group (1-8) based on service-connected disabilities, income, and other factors.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). VA.gov - Eligibility for community care outside VA. va.gov. Retrieved Jul 31, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/resources/eligibility-for-community-care-outside-va/
Get accredited help
Don't file claims or applications alone. In New Jersey, start here:
- New Jersey Department of Veterans Affairs: services, support and advocacy for veterans, families, caregivers and survivors. Reach it online at veterans.nj.gov.
- Veterans Service Offices: the department operates one in each of New Jersey's 21 counties, led by trained, accredited Veterans Service Officers.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Get Help From A VA Accredited Representative Or VSO. va.gov. Retrieved Jul 31, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/get-help-from-accredited-representative/
- Statewide line: New Jersey operates a statewide toll-free line, 1-844-671-1019, to connect veterans and families with a Veterans Service Officer.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Get Help From A VA Accredited Representative Or VSO. va.gov. Retrieved Jul 31, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/get-help-from-accredited-representative/
Line up the Aid and Attendance forms
A medical examiner fills out the examination section of VA Form 21-2680. If your loved one is in an assisted living facility or a nursing home, VA also needs VA Form 21-0779, which a nursing home official uses to verify the stay, and unreimbursed medical expenses go on VA Form 21P-8416.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). VA Form 21-2680. va.gov. Retrieved Jul 31, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/forms/21-2680/
Frequently Asked Questions
Do you have to be service-connected disabled to get VA long-term care?
Not for all programs. On the pension route, none of the Aid and Attendance requirements VA lists is a service-connected disability. That route requires a VA pension, qualifying wartime service, a discharge that isn't dishonorable, income and net worth within VA's limits, a need for aid and attendance, and one of four alternatives such as being 65 or older or receiving SSI or SSDI.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Eligibility For Veterans Pension. va.gov. Retrieved Jul 31, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/pension/eligibility/ The VA's other long-term care programs depend on enrollment, a VA finding that the veteran needs the service, and its availability nearby; whether VA helps pay for nursing home care depends on income and the level of service-connected disability.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Current VA Health Care Copay Rates. va.gov. Retrieved Oct 12, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/health-care/copay-rates/
Can a veteran's spouse live in a New Jersey Veterans Memorial Home?
In some cases, yes. Admission to New Jersey's Veterans Memorial Homes is open to eligible veterans, the veteran's spouse, and Gold Star Parents. Each home's page sets an age-50, 10-year-marriage rule for a spouse, widow, or widower, but state law admits some surviving spouses at any age, so ask the home before ruling it out.State of New Jersey. (n.d.). New Jersey Veterans Memorial Homes — NJ Department of Veterans Affairs. nj.gov. Retrieved Jul 31, 2026, from https://www.nj.gov/dva/veterans/memorial-homes/ Rules vary by home, so confirm current admission policies with the specific facility.
How long does it take to get Aid and Attendance approved?
The VA's own answer is "It depends." It works through claims in the order it receives them, unless a claim needs priority processing.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). VA Form 21-2680. va.gov. Retrieved Jul 31, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/forms/21-2680/ If you're still gathering paperwork, filing VA Form 21-0966 (Intent to File) first can secure the earliest possible effective date for any retroactive payments.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). VA Form 21-2680. va.gov. Retrieved Jul 31, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/forms/21-2680/
Can a veteran get both VA Aid and Attendance and NJ FamilyCare Medicaid?
Yes. VA Aid and Attendance and NJ FamilyCare (New Jersey Medicaid) are separate programs, and a person can receive both at once.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Aid And Attendance Benefits And Housebound Allowance. va.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/pension/aid-attendance-housebound/ But NJ FamilyCare counts the income in two stages: under the SSI rules it applies at the eligibility step, the aid and attendance allowance is not counted toward the income limit. After someone is eligible and living in a nursing home or other medical institution, an Aid and Attendance amount VA is still paying at the full rate can count in the share-of-cost calculation; confirm how New Jersey treats it with the county welfare agency or DMAHS.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Aid And Attendance Benefits And Housebound Allowance. va.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/pension/aid-attendance-housebound/ For a veteran with no spouse or child, federal law caps the pension at $90 a month after the month of admission to a Medicaid-covered nursing facility, and Medicaid's payment to the facility can't be reduced by that pension.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Aid And Attendance Benefits And Housebound Allowance. va.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/pension/aid-attendance-housebound/ That cap may not reach a Veterans Memorial Home stay, depending on whether VA pays the home a per diem, so ask a Veterans Service Officer.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Aid And Attendance Benefits And Housebound Allowance. va.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/pension/aid-attendance-housebound/ Consult a VA-accredited representative or elder law attorney before applying.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Aid And Attendance Benefits And Housebound Allowance. va.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/pension/aid-attendance-housebound/
What if the VA denies the Aid and Attendance or pension claim?
You have options. After an initial decision, the VA offers three decision-review paths: a Supplemental Claim (file new and relevant evidence the VA didn't have when it reviewed the case before), a Higher-Level Review (a higher-level reviewer re-examines the case, with no new evidence submitted), or a Board Appeal (a Veterans Law Judge at the Board of Veterans' Appeals reviews the case). You elect one of the three, not several at once: under 38 CFR 3.2500(b), once you've filed under one option you can't file under a different one while that review is pending final adjudication.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). VA.gov - Decision reviews and appeals. va.gov. Retrieved Jul 31, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/decision-reviews/ That menu narrows later: after a Higher-Level Review decision the choices are a Supplemental Claim or a Board Appeal (there is no second Higher-Level Review), and after a Board decision they are a Supplemental Claim or an appeal to the U.S. Court of Appeals for Veterans Claims, which must be filed within 120 days of the date on the Board's decision letter.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). VA.gov - Decision reviews and appeals. va.gov. Retrieved Jul 31, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/decision-reviews/ File it with the Court, not the VA; a properly addressed notice you mail counts as received on its legible U.S. Postal Service postmark date, even if it arrives after day 120.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). VA.gov - Decision reviews and appeals. va.gov. Retrieved Jul 31, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/decision-reviews/ A Higher-Level Review or Board Appeal generally must be requested within one year of the date on the decision letter for the decision being reviewed (a contested claim between several people allows only a Board Appeal, within 60 days). A Supplemental Claim can come later, but one received after that year takes an effective date no earlier than its arrival, which can cost back pay.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). VA.gov - Decision reviews and appeals. va.gov. Retrieved Jul 31, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/decision-reviews/ VA says an accredited attorney, claims agent, or Veterans Service Organization representative can help you request a review.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Get Help From A VA Accredited Representative Or VSO. va.gov. Retrieved Jul 31, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/get-help-from-accredited-representative/
Next Steps
If you're caring for a veteran who needs help, start by calling New Jersey's statewide veterans line at 1-844-671-1019 to reach a Veterans Service Officer.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Get Help From A VA Accredited Representative Or VSO. va.gov. Retrieved Jul 31, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/get-help-from-accredited-representative/ The state and VA pages we checked state no fee for New Jersey's county offices, so ask when you call.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Get Help From A VA Accredited Representative Or VSO. va.gov. Retrieved Jul 31, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/get-help-from-accredited-representative/
Ask about state benefits too. Under New Jersey law, a qualifying disabled veteran who owns and lives in their principal residence is entitled to a full exemption from property taxation on it (in a multi-family building, on the share the veteran occupies), claimed by filing Form D.V.S.S.E. with the local assessor rather than with the VA.State of New Jersey. (n.d.). NJ Division of Taxation - 100% Disabled Veteran Property Tax Exemption. nj.gov. Retrieved Jul 22, 2026, from https://www.nj.gov/treasury/taxation/lpt/lpt-disabledvet.shtml Our guide to the New Jersey disabled veteran property tax exemption covers who qualifies, what happens to a surviving spouse, and how to file.
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