If your loved one is a veteran, the VA offers more senior care benefits than most families realize. From home-based medical care to nursing homes and monthly cash payments, VA benefits for senior care in North Carolina can cover a wide range of needs. The challenge isn't usually eligibility. It's knowing what to ask for.
This guide covers every VA program that helps pay for or provide senior care, how to access them in North Carolina, and what happens when VA care isn't enough on its own.
In This Guide
- Key Takeaways
- VA Senior Care Benefits: Long-Term Care
- North Carolina State Veterans Homes
- Aid and Attendance
- Veteran-Directed Care
- Community Care (MISSION Act)
- How VA Benefits Work with Medicare and Medicaid
- How to Access VA Senior Care Benefits
- Frequently Asked Questions
- Next Steps
VA Senior Care Benefits in North Carolina: Long-Term Care Programs
The VA offers multiple long-term care programs.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). VA Nursing Homes And Assisted Living. va.gov. Retrieved Sep 29, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/health-care/about-va-health-benefits/long-term-care/ Access isn't automatic once a veteran is enrolled: VA also has to conclude the veteran needs that specific service for their ongoing treatment and personal care, and the service, or a space in the care setting, has to be available near them. That test isn't closed, either: the VA says it may also consider other factors, like the veteran's service-connected disability status or insurance coverage.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Current VA Health Care Copay Rates. va.gov. Retrieved Oct 12, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/health-care/copay-rates/
Home Based Primary Care (HBPC)
A VA doctor leads a health care team that provides services in the veteran's home, such as nursing care, physical therapy, and help with daily tasks.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). VA Nursing Homes And Assisted Living. va.gov. Retrieved Sep 29, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/health-care/about-va-health-benefits/long-term-care/
Don't confuse it with home health care through Medicare, which is a separate benefit with its own rules.
Adult Day Health Care
Veterans attend a structured daytime program that provides social activities, companionship, recreation, care, and support.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). VA Nursing Homes And Assisted Living. va.gov. Retrieved Sep 29, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/health-care/about-va-health-benefits/long-term-care/ It can double as a break for the family caregiver: VA counts a day at an adult day health care program as one form of home respite care.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). VA Nursing Homes And Assisted Living. va.gov. Retrieved Sep 29, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/health-care/about-va-health-benefits/long-term-care/
Community Living Centers (VA Nursing Homes)
Community Living Centers are VA nursing centers designed to feel like home, providing nursing-home-level care.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). VA Nursing Homes And Assisted Living. va.gov. Retrieved Sep 29, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/health-care/about-va-health-benefits/long-term-care/ Ask your VA care team where the nearest one is.
A CLC stay can be short-term or long-term, and a CLC is also one of the places VA provides nursing home respite care.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Current VA Health Care Copay Rates. va.gov. Retrieved Oct 12, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/health-care/copay-rates/,U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). VA Nursing Homes And Assisted Living. va.gov. Retrieved Sep 29, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/health-care/about-va-health-benefits/long-term-care/
Community Nursing Home Program
The VA contracts with community (non-VA) nursing homes so veterans can get nursing home care near home.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). VA Nursing Homes And Assisted Living. va.gov. Retrieved Sep 29, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/health-care/about-va-health-benefits/long-term-care/ There is no copay for geriatric care or extended care for the first 21 days of care in a 12-month period; starting on the 22nd day, the VA bases the copay on the level of care the veteran is receiving and the financial information they provide on the Application for Extended Care Services (VA Form 10-10EC).U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Current VA Health Care Copay Rates. va.gov. Retrieved Oct 12, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/health-care/copay-rates/
Respite Care
The VA offers respite care to give family caregivers a temporary break, and eligible Primary Family Caregivers in the VA Program of Comprehensive Assistance for Family Caregivers (PCAFC) receive at least 30 days of respite care per year.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). VA Family Caregiver Assistance Program (PCAFC) — Veterans Affairs. va.gov. Retrieved Sep 2, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/family-and-caregiver-benefits/health-and-disability/comprehensive-assistance-for-family-caregivers/ Respite can be in-home (a substitute caregiver comes to the house, or the veteran attends an adult day health care program) or a short nursing home stay in a CLC or community nursing home. It isn't always free: VA may charge a copay based on the veteran's service-connected disability status and financial information, and respite from a community agency, adult day center, or nursing home also requires community care eligibility. To arrange it, contact the veteran's VA social worker or case manager.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). VA Family Caregiver Assistance Program (PCAFC) — Veterans Affairs. va.gov. Retrieved Sep 2, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/family-and-caregiver-benefits/health-and-disability/comprehensive-assistance-for-family-caregivers/ Family caregivers can also call the VA Caregiver Support Line at 1-855-260-3274 (weekdays, 8 a.m. to 8 p.m. Eastern).U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). VA's National Caregiver Support Line (CSL) - VA Caregiver Support Program. caregiver.va.gov. Retrieved Aug 1, 2026, from https://www.caregiver.va.gov/help_landing.asp
For more on respite options, see our guide to respite care in North Carolina.
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North Carolina State Veterans Homes
North Carolina operates State Veterans Homes through the NC Department of Military and Veterans Affairs (DMVA).U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). State Veterans Homes. va.gov. Retrieved Sep 6, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/geriatrics/pages/State_Veterans_Homes.asp These are skilled nursing facilities for veterans. DMVA runs four full-service homes; the long-running Fayetteville home is closed, after DMVA identified significant repair needs and structural deficiencies and helped its 85 residents relocate to other State Veterans Homes or a facility of their choice. The Department has committed to replace the facility, but publishes no site, bed count, or opening date for the replacement, so don't plan around a timeline.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). State Veterans Homes. va.gov. Retrieved Sep 6, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/geriatrics/pages/State_Veterans_Homes.asp
| Location | Notable Details |
|---|---|
| Salisbury | 601 Brenner Ave., about 99 beds |
| Black Mountain | 62 Lake Eden Rd., about 100 beds |
| Kinston | 2150 Hull Rd., about 100 beds |
| Kernersville | Newest home, about 120 beds (opened 2023) |
All active homes provide round-the-clock nursing, physical, occupational, and speech therapy, wound care and pain management, medication management, and hospice, and are licensed by the state and approved for Medicare, Medicaid, and third-party insurance.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). State Veterans Homes. va.gov. Retrieved Sep 6, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/geriatrics/pages/State_Veterans_Homes.asp Each state sets the eligibility and admission criteria for its own veterans homes, so ask what North Carolina requires before you plan around a bed.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). State Veterans Homes. va.gov. Retrieved Sep 6, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/geriatrics/pages/State_Veterans_Homes.asp North Carolina's own program pages don't spell out admission criteria or what a resident pays, so ask the home directly (the NC DMVA lists each one) or talk with a VA social worker.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). State Veterans Homes. va.gov. Retrieved Sep 6, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/geriatrics/pages/State_Veterans_Homes.asp Each home also has a DMVA Veterans Service Officer who helps veterans and families apply for VA benefits.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). State Veterans Homes. va.gov. Retrieved Sep 6, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/geriatrics/pages/State_Veterans_Homes.asp
VA Aid and Attendance
Aid and Attendance is an increased monthly pension payment for a veteran or surviving spouse who already receives a VA pension and needs regular help, such as with daily activities.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Aid And Attendance Benefits And Housebound Allowance. va.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/pension/aid-attendance-housebound/
2026 Rates
| Category | Maximum Annual Pension Rate |
|---|---|
| Veteran with Aid and Attendance, no dependents | Up to $29,093 a year |
| Veteran with Aid and Attendance, one dependent (such as a spouse) | Up to $34,488 a year |
| Two veterans married to each other, both qualifying for Aid and Attendance | Up to $46,143 a year |
| Veteran with Housebound benefits, no dependents | Up to $21,313 a year |
| Surviving spouse with Aid and Attendance, no dependents | Up to $18,697 a year |
These 2026 rates are effective December 1, 2025 through November 30, 2026. Each figure is the maximum amount of pension payable, not the amount a household receives: the VA pays the difference between the claimant's income for VA purposes and that limit. VA's rate tables are annual, but pension is paid monthly. By regulation, VA subtracts countable income from the yearly limit, divides what's left by 12, and rounds down to the whole dollar.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Current Pension Rates For Veterans. va.gov. Retrieved Sep 3, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/pension/veterans-pension-rates/
Who Qualifies
To be eligible, the veteran must have no dishonorable discharge, and must meet each of these tests:U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Eligibility For Veterans Pension. va.gov. Retrieved Jul 31, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/pension/eligibility/
- Served during a wartime period. That means at least 90 days of active duty with at least 1 day during a wartime period if the veteran started active duty before September 8, 1980; generally at least 24 months, or the full period they were called or ordered to active duty, still with at least 1 day during wartime, if they started active duty as an enlisted person after September 7, 1980; or, for an officer, starting active duty after October 16, 1981 without having previously served on active duty for at least 24 months
- Meet at least one of four status tests: be at least 65 years old, have a permanent and total disability, be a patient in a nursing home for long-term care because of a disability, or be getting Social Security Disability Insurance or Supplemental Security Income. Any one of the four satisfies it, so a wartime veteran under 65 who receives SSI qualifies without any disability rating
- Meet at least one aid-and-attendance need: needing another person's help with daily activities like bathing, feeding, and dressing; having to stay in bed, or spend a large part of the day in bed, because of illness; being a nursing home patient because of lost mental or physical abilities related to a disability; or eyesight limited, even with glasses or contacts, to 5/200 or less in both eyes or a visual field of 5 degrees or less
- Have a net worth below $163,699. The VA's net-worth calculation combines the claimant's and their dependents' assets and annual income, excluding the primary home and a vehicle, so comparing assets alone against that limit gives the wrong answerU.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Eligibility For Veterans Pension. va.gov. Retrieved Jul 31, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/pension/eligibility/
The VA enforces a 3-year look-back period on asset transfers for less than fair market value, with a penalty period that can run up to 5 years.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Eligibility For Veterans Pension. va.gov. Retrieved Jul 31, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/pension/eligibility/
How to Apply
The steps below are the pension route: the VA's own condition is that you may be eligible for this benefit if you get a VA pension. Apply using VA Form 21-2680 (Examination for Housebound Status or Permanent Need for Regular Aid and Attendance), which a medical examiner must fill out. That form also covers Aid and Attendance that will be added to monthly compensation rather than pension, so a veteran drawing VA disability compensation still uses it. A wartime veteran pursuing the pension route who is not already receiving a VA pension files Form 21P-527EZ (Application for Veterans Pension) alongside it.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). VA Form 21-2680. va.gov. Retrieved Jul 31, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/forms/21-2680/ You can apply online at VA.gov, by mail to the VA Pension Intake Center, or in person at a VA regional office; an accredited attorney, claims agent, or Veterans Service Organization representative can also help you file. Asked how long a decision takes, the VA answers: "It depends." It works through claims in the order it receives them, unless a claim requires priority processing.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). VA Form 21-2680. va.gov. Retrieved Jul 31, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/forms/21-2680/
Don't do this alone. The Veterans Affairs division of the NC DMVA has accredited Veteran Service Officers who help you determine eligibility, gather evidence, and choose the right claim type, then file the claim electronically and track it with the VA. Asked whether veterans have to pay for these services, DMVA answers: "Never. All services are 100% free."ncleg.gov. (n.d.). N.C. Gen. Stat. § 143B-1211 — Powers and duties of the Department of Military and Veterans Affairs. Retrieved Aug 25, 2026, from https://www.ncleg.gov/EnactedLegislation/Statutes/HTML/BySection/Chapter_143B/GS_143B-1211.html
For the full application walkthrough, see our VA Aid and Attendance guide.
Aid and Attendance is federal money, but North Carolina runs a benefit of its own that a veteran can hold at the same time. If the VA has certified a service-connected disability as permanent and total, the state excludes part of the appraised value of the veteran's permanent residence from property tax, a benefit set by North Carolina law rather than the VA.ncleg.gov. (n.d.). North Carolina General Assembly - G.S. 105-277.1C Disabled veteran property tax homestead exclusion. Retrieved Jul 22, 2026, from https://www.ncleg.gov/enactedlegislation/statutes/html/bysection/chapter_105/gs_105-277.1c.html Our guide to the North Carolina disabled veteran property tax exemption covers who qualifies, what it is worth, and the filing deadline.
Veteran-Directed Care
The Veteran-Directed Care (VDC) program gives veterans a flexible budget to hire their own caregivers, including family members.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Veteran-Directed Care - Geriatrics and Extended Care. va.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/geriatrics/pages/Veteran-Directed_Care.asp The veteran (or their representative) decides who provides care, what services to purchase, and how to manage the budget.
Veterans may hire family, friends, and/or neighbors to provide services. VA delivers VDC through local aging and disability network agencies: an options counselor helps with assessment and care planning, arranges fiscal management services, and provides ongoing counseling and support. To qualify, an enrolled veteran must be eligible for community care, meet the clinical criteria, and live where VDC is available.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Veteran-Directed Care - Geriatrics and Extended Care. va.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/geriatrics/pages/Veteran-Directed_Care.asp This is a good option for veterans who want control over their care and prefer family members as caregivers.
Contact your local VA medical center's social work department to ask about VDC availability in your area and to confirm who may be hired.
Community Care Through the MISSION Act
Under the MISSION Act of 2018, an enrolled veteran can get care from a community (non-VA) provider at VA's expense.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). VA.gov - Eligibility for community care outside VA. va.gov. Retrieved Jul 31, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/resources/eligibility-for-community-care-outside-va/ You may be eligible for community care if any one of these is true, among other grounds:
- The VA can't offer an appointment within 20 days (primary care, mental health care, and non-institutional extended care services) or 28 days (specialty care), unless you agreed to a later date
- The VA can't offer an appointment within a 30-minute average drive (same services) or a 60-minute average drive (specialty care), as VA calculates it
- The care you need isn't available at any VA health facility
- You and your VA provider agree that care from an in-network community provider is in your best medical interest
- The VA can't provide the service in a way that meets its quality standardsU.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). VA.gov - Eligibility for community care outside VA. va.gov. Retrieved Jul 31, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/resources/eligibility-for-community-care-outside-va/
Two requirements always apply on top of that list: you must be enrolled in or eligible for VA health care, and you need approval from your VA health care team before you see a community provider, except in certain cases like urgent or emergency care.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). VA.gov - Eligibility for community care outside VA. va.gov. Retrieved Jul 31, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/resources/eligibility-for-community-care-outside-va/
On May 19, 2025, the VA implemented language from the Senator Elizabeth Dole Act that removed the extra step of review by a second VA doctor on the "best medical interest" pathway, making it faster for eligible veterans to access community care.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). VA.gov - Eligibility for community care outside VA. va.gov. Retrieved Jul 31, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/resources/eligibility-for-community-care-outside-va/
For North Carolina veterans in rural areas far from a VA medical center, the drive-time standard is the one to ask about first.
How VA Benefits Work with Medicare and Medicaid
VA benefits don't replace Medicare or Medicaid, a veteran doesn't have to enroll in Medicare to keep VA health care, and a veteran or surviving spouse can qualify for and receive VA pension and Medicaid at the same time.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). VA Health Care And Other Insurance. va.gov. Retrieved Jul 15, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/resources/va-health-care-and-other-insurance/,U.S. Government Publishing Office. (n.d.). 38 CFR 3.551(i) - Certain beneficiaries receiving Medicaid-covered nursing home care ($90/month pension limit; authority 38 U.S.C. 5503) (eCFR, current edition). ecfr.gov. Retrieved Aug 3, 2026, from https://www.ecfr.gov/current/title-38/section-3.551 VA doesn't bill Medicare, generally Medicare and the VA can't pay for the same items or services, and you choose which coverage to use each time you get care. "Generally" matters, though: if VA authorizes only some of the services during a stay in a non-VA hospital, Medicare may pay for Medicare-covered services VA didn't authorize. Holding VA health care is not a shield against the Part B late-enrollment penalty. The VA says that if you delay signing up for Part B and then need it later, because you lose your VA health care benefits or need more choice in care options, you'll pay a penalty that gets bigger each year you delay and that you'll pay every year for the rest of your life.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). VA Health Care And Other Insurance. va.gov. Retrieved Jul 15, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/resources/va-health-care-and-other-insurance/
- VA + Medicare: Many veterans use both. Medicare pays for Medicare-covered items and services, and VA pays for VA-authorized items or services in a VA or non-VA facility. The two generally can't pay for the same service, but having both gives you more options.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). VA Health Care And Other Insurance. va.gov. Retrieved Jul 15, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/resources/va-health-care-and-other-insurance/
- VA + Medicaid: Aid and Attendance raises the VA pension limit rather than arriving as a second payment: its higher Maximum Annual Pension Rate replaces the basic rate.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Aid And Attendance Benefits And Housebound Allowance. va.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/pension/aid-attendance-housebound/ How it interacts with NC Medicaid depends on the program. For NC Medicaid long-term care eligibility, North Carolina applies SSI income rules, under which the Aid and Attendance and Housebound allowances are not income and the portion of a VA payment that results from unreimbursed medical expenses isn't counted either, so it's the basic pension amount that can count toward the income limit.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Aid And Attendance Benefits And Housebound Allowance. va.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/pension/aid-attendance-housebound/ Eligibility is only the first step. For a nursing facility resident, 42 CFR 435.725 says income disregarded at eligibility must be considered when setting the patient monthly liability. But North Carolina's Medicaid manual excludes the Aid and Attendance amount, and any unreimbursed-medical-expense amount, from that calculation (only that portion of the VA payment, not the whole pension).U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Aid And Attendance Benefits And Housebound Allowance. va.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/pension/aid-attendance-housebound/ The exception is a North Carolina State Veterans Nursing Home, where the manual counts the total VA benefit received in excess of the $90 improved pension, including Aid and Attendance and unreimbursed medical expenses.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Aid And Attendance Benefits And Housebound Allowance. va.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/pension/aid-attendance-housebound/ From countable income, 42 CFR 435.725(c) requires five deductions, in order: a personal needs allowance, maintenance amounts for a spouse and for other family at home, medical or remedial care expenses no third party pays, and any SSI and state supplement payments still received.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Aid And Attendance Benefits And Housebound Allowance. va.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/pension/aid-attendance-housebound/ That section covers people in medical institutions and intermediate care facilities, and it does not on its own settle the share of cost for home and community based waiver services, so a waiver household should confirm its own share of cost with NC Medicaid.U.S. Government Publishing Office. (n.d.). 38 CFR 3.551(i) - Certain beneficiaries receiving Medicaid-covered nursing home care ($90/month pension limit; authority 38 U.S.C. 5503) (eCFR, current edition). ecfr.gov. Retrieved Aug 3, 2026, from https://www.ecfr.gov/current/title-38/section-3.551,U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Aid And Attendance Benefits And Housebound Allowance. va.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/pension/aid-attendance-housebound/ By federal statute, a veteran with neither spouse nor child who is covered by Medicaid for nursing facility services can be paid no more than $90 per month in VA pension for any period after the month of admission, and the facility's Medicaid payment can't be reduced by that $90.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Aid And Attendance Benefits And Housebound Allowance. va.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/pension/aid-attendance-housebound/ The cap doesn't reach every stay: the statute excludes a State home for which VA makes nursing home per diem payments, so check a State Veterans Home stay with an accredited Veteran Service Officer.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Aid And Attendance Benefits And Housebound Allowance. va.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/pension/aid-attendance-housebound/
- State Veterans Homes are approved for Medicare, Medicaid, and third-party insurance, and VA may also pay a recognized State Veterans Home to help with the cost of a veteran's care; VA does not pay for care for non-veterans.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). State Veterans Homes. va.gov. Retrieved Sep 6, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/geriatrics/pages/State_Veterans_Homes.asp
Because income-counting rules vary by Medicaid category and are applied case by case, confirm the exact treatment with a DMVA Veteran Service Officer, an accredited attorney, or NC Medicaid before relying on it.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Aid And Attendance Benefits And Housebound Allowance. va.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/pension/aid-attendance-housebound/
How to Access VA Senior Care Benefits in North Carolina
Confirm VA health care enrollment
If the veteran isn't already enrolled in VA health care, apply at va.gov/health-care/how-to-apply. Once the veteran is enrolled, the VA assigns a priority group (1-8) based on military service history, disability rating, income level, whether the veteran qualifies for Medicaid, and other benefits received, such as a VA pension.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). VA.gov - Eligibility for community care outside VA. va.gov. Retrieved Jul 31, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/resources/eligibility-for-community-care-outside-va/ Veterans with service-connected disabilities get the highest priority.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Eligibility For VA Health Care. va.gov. Retrieved Jul 31, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/health-care/eligibility/
Get free help
Don't file claims or applications alone. The Veterans Affairs division of the NC DMVA staffs accredited Veteran Service Officers out of 12 State Veteran Centers; find yours through the NC DMVA "Find your VSO" pages or call DMVA's toll-free line at 844-624-8387. Appointments are recommended but not required, and many counties accept walk-ins. All services are 100% free.ncleg.gov. (n.d.). N.C. Gen. Stat. § 143B-1211 — Powers and duties of the Department of Military and Veterans Affairs. Retrieved Aug 25, 2026, from https://www.ncleg.gov/EnactedLegislation/Statutes/HTML/BySection/Chapter_143B/GS_143B-1211.html
Gather records
You'll need the veteran's DD-214 (discharge papers), medical records documenting the need for care, and financial information. If you can't find the DD-214, the National Personnel Records Center can provide copies (request through va.gov).
Frequently Asked Questions
Do you have to be service-connected disabled to get VA long-term care?
No. VA offers long-term care services to veterans signed up for VA health care, as long as VA concludes the veteran needs a specific service and it's available nearby. For nursing home care, though, whether VA benefits help pay depends on the veteran's income and the level of their service-connected disability.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Current VA Health Care Copay Rates. va.gov. Retrieved Oct 12, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/health-care/copay-rates/ A service-connected disability does affect priority: Priority Group 1 covers veterans with a service-connected disability the VA has rated 50% or more disabling, veterans the VA has concluded are unable to work because of a service-connected disability, and Medal of Honor recipients.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Eligibility For VA Health Care. va.gov. Retrieved Jul 31, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/health-care/eligibility/ Aid and Attendance doesn't require a service-connected disability at all; it requires wartime service, one of four status tests (65 or older, permanently and totally disabled, in a nursing home for long-term care because of a disability, or receiving SSDI or SSI), income and net worth within VA's limits, and a need for aid and attendance, such as needing help with daily activities.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Eligibility For Veterans Pension. va.gov. Retrieved Jul 31, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/pension/eligibility/
Can a veteran's spouse live in a North Carolina State Veterans Home?
North Carolina's State Veterans Homes are skilled nursing facilities owned and operated by the state.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). State Veterans Homes. va.gov. Retrieved Sep 6, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/geriatrics/pages/State_Veterans_Homes.asp Each state sets the eligibility and admission criteria for its own homes, including who besides the veteran may be admitted, so this is a question to put to the home directly rather than assume. Contact the specific home's admissions office or the NC DMVA for current admission policies.
How long does it take to get Aid and Attendance approved?
The VA's own answer is: "It depends." It processes claims in the order it receives them, unless a claim requires priority processing.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). VA Form 21-2680. va.gov. Retrieved Jul 31, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/forms/21-2680/ Working with an accredited DMVA Veteran Service Officer, who helps you gather the evidence and pick the right claim type before the claim is filed, reduces the chance of errors that cause delays.ncleg.gov. (n.d.). N.C. Gen. Stat. § 143B-1211 — Powers and duties of the Department of Military and Veterans Affairs. Retrieved Aug 25, 2026, from https://www.ncleg.gov/EnactedLegislation/Statutes/HTML/BySection/Chapter_143B/GS_143B-1211.html You can apply while your loved one is already receiving care.
What if the VA denies an Aid and Attendance claim?
A denial isn't the end. You can ask the VA to review the decision or file again with additional evidence. An accredited DMVA Veteran Service Officer can review why the claim was denied and guide you through a higher-level review, a supplemental claim, or a board appeal at no cost, which is one of the strongest reasons to work with an accredited officer from the start.ncleg.gov. (n.d.). N.C. Gen. Stat. § 143B-1211 — Powers and duties of the Department of Military and Veterans Affairs. Retrieved Aug 25, 2026, from https://www.ncleg.gov/EnactedLegislation/Statutes/HTML/BySection/Chapter_143B/GS_143B-1211.html
Does the VA pay for assisted living?
The VA doesn't directly operate assisted living facilities, but Aid and Attendance is paid to the veteran as an increase to the monthly VA pension, and the household can put that money toward assisted living. Payments for help with daily activities in the facility can also count as deductible medical expenses when VA calculates the award, even when the helper isn't a health care provider, if the veteran is receiving health care or custodial care in the facility and either needs aid and attendance, is housebound, or a physician, physician assistant, certified nurse practitioner, or clinical nurse specialist has stated in writing that they need to be in a protected environment.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Current Pension Rates For Veterans. va.gov. Retrieved Jul 31, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/pension/veterans-pension-rates/ Veteran-Directed Care is a different tool: its flexible budget is for hiring and supervising workers who help a veteran live at home or in their community, so ask the VA social worker making the referral whether it fits an assisted living plan.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Veteran-Directed Care - Geriatrics and Extended Care. va.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/geriatrics/pages/Veteran-Directed_Care.asp If the veteran might qualify for NC Medicaid, ask NC Medicaid whether a Home and Community Based Services waiver could help with care; eligibility is income- and asset-tested.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Aid And Attendance Benefits And Housebound Allowance. va.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/pension/aid-attendance-housebound/
Next Steps
If you're caring for a veteran who needs help, start by contacting the Veterans Affairs division of the NC DMVA, or call its toll-free line at 844-624-8387 to reach a Veteran Service Officer.ncleg.gov. (n.d.). N.C. Gen. Stat. § 143B-1211 — Powers and duties of the Department of Military and Veterans Affairs. Retrieved Aug 25, 2026, from https://www.ncleg.gov/EnactedLegislation/Statutes/HTML/BySection/Chapter_143B/GS_143B-1211.html They can help you determine eligibility and file.ncleg.gov. (n.d.). N.C. Gen. Stat. § 143B-1211 — Powers and duties of the Department of Military and Veterans Affairs. Retrieved Aug 25, 2026, from https://www.ncleg.gov/EnactedLegislation/Statutes/HTML/BySection/Chapter_143B/GS_143B-1211.html
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