If you're pricing assisted living for a parent in North Carolina, the first number to know is a median of about $74,400 to $77,955 a year.assets.carescout.com. (2025). CareScout — Cost of Care Survey 2025, Median Cost Data Tables (North Carolina and USA National rows: annual, monthly, and home-care hourly/visit medians). Retrieved Sep 6, 2026, from https://assets.carescout.com/x/8fcb50422f/282102.pdf That range spans two CareScout publications, and it sits at or somewhat above the national figure.assets.carescout.com. (2025). CareScout — Cost of Care Survey 2025, Median Cost Data Tables (North Carolina and USA National rows: annual, monthly, and home-care hourly/visit medians). Retrieved Sep 6, 2026, from https://assets.carescout.com/x/8fcb50422f/282102.pdf It is a hard cost to weigh against your peace of mind, so take it a piece at a time. The second thing to know is the local vocabulary: what families call assisted living, North Carolina licenses as an adult care home, and Medicaid does not pay its room and board.
This guide explains what an adult care home is in North Carolina, what you'll actually pay, how State/County Special Assistance can supplement room and board for a low-income resident, where Medicaid does and doesn't fit, and how to check out a home before anyone signs.
In This Guide
- Key Takeaways
- What Assisted Living in North Carolina Is
- What Assisted Living in North Carolina Costs
- Help Paying: State/County Special Assistance
- How to Vet an Adult Care Home
- Frequently Asked Questions
What Assisted Living in North Carolina Is
Families say "assisted living," but North Carolina's licensing law uses a different name: an adult care home. These are licensed by the North Carolina Division of Health Service Regulation, through its Adult Care Licensure Section.ncleg.gov. (n.d.). N.C. G.S. 131D-2.1 - Definitions (adult care home; family care home). Retrieved Sep 6, 2026, from https://www.ncleg.gov/EnactedLegislation/Statutes/HTML/BySection/Chapter_131D/GS_131D-2.1.html When you tour a place that markets itself as assisted living here, ask whether it holds that DHSR adult care home license. Without it, the place isn't a licensed adult care home, whatever the brochure says.
There's a size distinction worth knowing. A larger adult care home looks like what most people picture when they hear assisted living. A smaller one, caring for two to six unrelated residents, is commonly called a family care home. Both are licensed by DHSR's Adult Care Licensure Section; the family care home is just the small-scale version.ncleg.gov. (n.d.). N.C. G.S. 131D-2.1 - Definitions (adult care home; family care home). Retrieved Sep 6, 2026, from https://www.ncleg.gov/EnactedLegislation/Statutes/HTML/BySection/Chapter_131D/GS_131D-2.1.html
What an adult care home provides is room, board, supervision, and help with the activities of daily living: bathing, dressing, eating, toileting, getting around, and taking medications.ncleg.gov. (n.d.). N.C. G.S. 131D-2.1 - Definitions (adult care home; family care home). Retrieved Sep 6, 2026, from https://www.ncleg.gov/EnactedLegislation/Statutes/HTML/BySection/Chapter_131D/GS_131D-2.1.html It's built for someone who needs a hand through the day but not the round-the-clock skilled nursing of a nursing facility. When a resident's medical needs climb past what the home is licensed to handle, the setting that fits is usually a nursing home instead.
So the practical question on a tour isn't only "is it nice." It's "what is this home licensed to do, and what change in Mom's health would mean she has to move?" Ask it directly, and ask for the answer in writing.
What Assisted Living in North Carolina Costs
North Carolina sits at or a little above the middle of the country on assisted living price. In the CareScout (Genworth) Cost of Care Survey, the 2025 survey, released in March 2026, put the median cost of assisted living in the state at about $77,955 a year, roughly $6,496 a month, in its data tables (20th highest among the states), while CareScout's North Carolina state release gives $74,400 a year (22nd). Either way, the state is at or somewhat above the national median of about $74,400.assets.carescout.com. (2025). CareScout — Cost of Care Survey 2025, Median Cost Data Tables (North Carolina and USA National rows: annual, monthly, and home-care hourly/visit medians). Retrieved Sep 6, 2026, from https://assets.carescout.com/x/8fcb50422f/282102.pdf These are industry-survey medians, not government rates, so treat them as a ballpark for budgeting rather than a quote.
Where you look inside North Carolina can move the number: CareScout cautions that a particular provider's cost may differ significantly from the median, depending on location, the services needed and the level of support. A semi-private nursing-home room runs slightly above the national median and a private room matches it, while non-medical home care runs below. Here's how the settings compare in the same survey:assets.carescout.com. (2025). CareScout — Cost of Care Survey 2025, Median Cost Data Tables (North Carolina and USA National rows: annual, monthly, and home-care hourly/visit medians). Retrieved Sep 6, 2026, from https://assets.carescout.com/x/8fcb50422f/282102.pdf
| Setting | Approximate monthly median |
|---|---|
| Assisted living (adult care home) | $6,496 (data tables; the state release gives $74,400 a year) |
| Non-medical caregiver (44 hrs/week) | $5,720 |
| Nursing home, semi-private room | $9,733 |
| Nursing home, private room | $10,798 |
One caution when you compare quotes. The price a home advertises is usually a base rate that covers the room, meals, and a basic level of help. Care often gets priced in tiers on top of that, so a resident who needs help with several daily activities, or who needs memory care, pays more, sometimes a lot more. Ask every home for a written breakdown: what's in the base rate, what's billed as an add-on, how care levels get assessed, and how often the rate goes up. Two homes with the same headline price can land far apart once the care fees are added.
Help Paying: State/County Special Assistance
Here's the honest version first. Medicaid does not pay your room and board in a North Carolina adult care home. Its role there is separate: it enrolls adult care homes to provide personal care services and non-emergency medical transportation.ncleg.gov. (n.d.). N.C. G.S. 131D-2.1 - Definitions (adult care home; family care home). Retrieved Sep 6, 2026, from https://www.ncleg.gov/EnactedLegislation/Statutes/HTML/BySection/Chapter_131D/GS_131D-2.1.html The roof and the meals, in that setting, are yours to cover unless Special Assistance helps.
What North Carolina does have, and what sets it apart from many states, is State/County Special Assistance (SA). It's a cash supplement toward the cost of room and board in an adult care home, family care home or group home. It's aimed at low-income residents who are age 65 or older or who are disabled, and the person must live in a facility approved for Special Assistance that agrees to accept the state Special Assistance rate.ncleg.gov. (n.d.). N.C. G.S. 131D-2.1 - Definitions (adult care home; family care home). Retrieved Sep 6, 2026, from https://www.ncleg.gov/EnactedLegislation/Statutes/HTML/BySection/Chapter_131D/GS_131D-2.1.html You apply for Special Assistance through a county Department of Social Services (DSS).reports.oah.state.nc.us. (n.d.). 10A NCAC 71P .0601 Acceptance of Application (North Carolina Administrative Code, Office of Administrative Hearings). Retrieved Oct 3, 2026, from http://reports.oah.state.nc.us/ncac/title%2010a%20-%20health%20and%20human%20services/chapter%2071%20-%20adult%20and%20family%20support/subchapter%20p/10a%20ncac%2071p%20.0601.pdf
The piece families most often miss is the link to Medicaid. People who qualify for Special Assistance are automatically eligible for Medicaid.ncleg.gov. (n.d.). N.C. G.S. 131D-2.1 - Definitions (adult care home; family care home). Retrieved Sep 6, 2026, from https://www.ncleg.gov/EnactedLegislation/Statutes/HTML/BySection/Chapter_131D/GS_131D-2.1.html So SA isn't only about the monthly supplement toward room and board; it's also the door to Medicaid coverage for the resident's health care. The room-and-board help and the Medicaid eligibility come together.
Here's how the pieces fit:ncleg.gov. (n.d.). N.C. G.S. 131D-2.1 - Definitions (adult care home; family care home). Retrieved Sep 6, 2026, from https://www.ncleg.gov/EnactedLegislation/Statutes/HTML/BySection/Chapter_131D/GS_131D-2.1.html
| State/County Special Assistance | |
|---|---|
| Who qualifies | Low-income residents who are age 65 or older or disabled and live in a facility approved for Special Assistance |
| What it pays | A cash supplement toward room and board (not the same as Medicaid); residents of a Special Care Unit for Alzheimer's or a related disorder draw a different rate |
| The Medicaid link | Anyone who qualifies for Special Assistance is automatically eligible for Medicaid |
| Where to apply | Your county Department of Social Services (DSS)reports.oah.state.nc.us. (n.d.). 10A NCAC 71P .0601 Acceptance of Application (North Carolina Administrative Code, Office of Administrative Hearings). Retrieved Oct 3, 2026, from http://reports.oah.state.nc.us/ncac/title%2010a%20-%20health%20and%20human%20services/chapter%2071%20-%20adult%20and%20family%20support/subchapter%20p/10a%20ncac%2071p%20.0601.pdf |
Two limits to hold onto. First, Special Assistance applies only in a facility approved for Special Assistance that agrees to accept the state rate, so a home with an adult care home license may still not take it. Second, Medicaid itself does not pay adult-care-home room and board; that help comes from Special Assistance.ncleg.gov. (n.d.). N.C. G.S. 131D-2.1 - Definitions (adult care home; family care home). Retrieved Sep 6, 2026, from https://www.ncleg.gov/EnactedLegislation/Statutes/HTML/BySection/Chapter_131D/GS_131D-2.1.html Medicaid also helps pay for care in a nursing facility for an eligible person with an approved FL-2 medical form, though that's a more clinical setting than an adult care home and the financial eligibility is determined by your county DSS.U.S. Government Publishing Office. (2024). 42 U.S.C. 1396p - Liens, adjustments and recoveries, and transfers of assets (United States Code, 2024 Edition, govinfo.gov). govinfo.gov. Retrieved Oct 14, 2026, from https://www.govinfo.gov/content/pkg/USCODE-2024-title42/html/USCODE-2024-title42-chap7-subchapXIX-sec1396p.htm
Special Assistance is one route. For the full menu of ways North Carolina families cover assisted living, including private pay, long-term care insurance, VA Aid and Attendance, and the Special Assistance and Medicaid pathway above, see our guide on how to pay for assisted living in North Carolina.
If your parent's income and assets are close to the line, it's worth understanding how Medicaid asset rules and spend-down work before you apply, because how money is handled in the years beforehand can change whether and when someone qualifies. Our guides to Medicaid planning strategies and the Medicaid personal needs allowance cover the pieces that come up most.
How to Vet an Adult Care Home
The license tells you what a home is allowed to do; a visit tells you how it runs today. Do both, and check the license first.
Check the DHSR license
The North Carolina Division of Health Service Regulation licenses adult care homes through its Adult Care Licensure Section.ncleg.gov. (n.d.). N.C. G.S. 131D-2.1 - Definitions (adult care home; family care home). Retrieved Sep 6, 2026, from https://www.ncleg.gov/EnactedLegislation/Statutes/HTML/BySection/Chapter_131D/GS_131D-2.1.html Confirm a home holds a current adult care home license before you tour.
Ask about Special Assistance, if money might get tight
If your parent may need help with room and board now or later, ask up front whether the home is approved for Special Assistance and accepts the state rate.ncleg.gov. (n.d.). N.C. G.S. 131D-2.1 - Definitions (adult care home; family care home). Retrieved Sep 6, 2026, from https://www.ncleg.gov/EnactedLegislation/Statutes/HTML/BySection/Chapter_131D/GS_131D-2.1.html Applications go through your county DSS, so it's worth contacting them early.reports.oah.state.nc.us. (n.d.). 10A NCAC 71P .0601 Acceptance of Application (North Carolina Administrative Code, Office of Administrative Hearings). Retrieved Oct 3, 2026, from http://reports.oah.state.nc.us/ncac/title%2010a%20-%20health%20and%20human%20services/chapter%2071%20-%20adult%20and%20family%20support/subchapter%20p/10a%20ncac%2071p%20.0601.pdf
Read the admission agreement and the discharge terms
A home should tell you in writing what it's licensed to do and the conditions under which a resident could be asked to move. That clause is where you learn when a change in health might force a transfer.
Tour at least three homes, and visit around a mealtime
Mealtimes are when staffing and the real mood of a building are hardest to stage. Watch how staff talk to residents, not just to you.
Bring the agreement home and read it without a salesperson in the room. If the refund, care-level, or discharge terms are unclear, have a family member or an elder law attorney look it over before anyone signs. The goal isn't a perfect home. It's a home whose limits you understand going in.
Frequently Asked Questions
How much does assisted living cost in North Carolina?
The statewide median is about $74,400 to $77,955 a year in the 2025 CareScout (Genworth) Cost of Care Survey, depending on which CareScout publication you read (the data tables give $77,955, or $6,496 a month), at or somewhat above the national median of about $74,400.assets.carescout.com. (2025). CareScout — Cost of Care Survey 2025, Median Cost Data Tables (North Carolina and USA National rows: annual, monthly, and home-care hourly/visit medians). Retrieved Sep 6, 2026, from https://assets.carescout.com/x/8fcb50422f/282102.pdf A particular home's price can differ significantly from the median. These are approximate industry-survey medians, not government rates, and the advertised price is usually a base rate before care add-ons.
Does Medicaid pay for assisted living in North Carolina?
Not for room and board in an adult care home. Medicaid's role there is separate: it pays the home for personal care services.ncleg.gov. (n.d.). N.C. G.S. 131D-2.1 - Definitions (adult care home; family care home). Retrieved Sep 6, 2026, from https://www.ncleg.gov/EnactedLegislation/Statutes/HTML/BySection/Chapter_131D/GS_131D-2.1.html North Carolina's help with room and board comes through State/County Special Assistance, for low-income residents who are 65 or older or disabled. Anyone who qualifies for Special Assistance is automatically eligible for Medicaid.ncleg.gov. (n.d.). N.C. G.S. 131D-2.1 - Definitions (adult care home; family care home). Retrieved Sep 6, 2026, from https://www.ncleg.gov/EnactedLegislation/Statutes/HTML/BySection/Chapter_131D/GS_131D-2.1.html Medicaid also helps pay for care in a nursing facility for those who qualify, but that's a more clinical setting than an adult care home.U.S. Government Publishing Office. (2024). 42 U.S.C. 1396p - Liens, adjustments and recoveries, and transfers of assets (United States Code, 2024 Edition, govinfo.gov). govinfo.gov. Retrieved Oct 14, 2026, from https://www.govinfo.gov/content/pkg/USCODE-2024-title42/html/USCODE-2024-title42-chap7-subchapXIX-sec1396p.htm
What is an adult care home, and what's a family care home?
An adult care home is North Carolina's license type for assisted living: it provides room, board, supervision, and help with daily activities for people who need more than independent living but not nursing-facility care.ncleg.gov. (n.d.). N.C. G.S. 131D-2.1 - Definitions (adult care home; family care home). Retrieved Sep 6, 2026, from https://www.ncleg.gov/EnactedLegislation/Statutes/HTML/BySection/Chapter_131D/GS_131D-2.1.html A family care home is the small-scale version: an adult care home caring for two to six unrelated residents.ncleg.gov. (n.d.). N.C. G.S. 131D-2.1 - Definitions (adult care home; family care home). Retrieved Sep 6, 2026, from https://www.ncleg.gov/EnactedLegislation/Statutes/HTML/BySection/Chapter_131D/GS_131D-2.1.html
What is State/County Special Assistance?
It's a cash supplement toward room and board in an adult care home approved for Special Assistance, for low-income residents who are age 65 or older or disabled.ncleg.gov. (n.d.). N.C. G.S. 131D-2.1 - Definitions (adult care home; family care home). Retrieved Sep 6, 2026, from https://www.ncleg.gov/EnactedLegislation/Statutes/HTML/BySection/Chapter_131D/GS_131D-2.1.html Qualifying for it makes the resident automatically eligible for Medicaid.ncleg.gov. (n.d.). N.C. G.S. 131D-2.1 - Definitions (adult care home; family care home). Retrieved Sep 6, 2026, from https://www.ncleg.gov/EnactedLegislation/Statutes/HTML/BySection/Chapter_131D/GS_131D-2.1.html You apply through your county Department of Social Services.reports.oah.state.nc.us. (n.d.). 10A NCAC 71P .0601 Acceptance of Application (North Carolina Administrative Code, Office of Administrative Hearings). Retrieved Oct 3, 2026, from http://reports.oah.state.nc.us/ncac/title%2010a%20-%20health%20and%20human%20services/chapter%2071%20-%20adult%20and%20family%20support/subchapter%20p/10a%20ncac%2071p%20.0601.pdf
What's the difference between an adult care home and a nursing home in North Carolina?
An adult care home is built for someone who needs help through the day, and it is not a substitute for a nursing facility: North Carolina law bars it from caring for anyone who is ventilator-dependent or needs continuous licensed nursing care, unless a physician certifies that care can be provided there temporarily.ncleg.gov. (n.d.). N.C. G.S. 131D-2.1 - Definitions (adult care home; family care home). Retrieved Sep 6, 2026, from https://www.ncleg.gov/EnactedLegislation/Statutes/HTML/BySection/Chapter_131D/GS_131D-2.1.html The cost gap is real: a semi-private nursing-home room runs about $9,733 a month in North Carolina versus roughly $6,496 for an adult care home, per CareScout's data tables.assets.carescout.com. (2025). CareScout — Cost of Care Survey 2025, Median Cost Data Tables (North Carolina and USA National rows: annual, monthly, and home-care hourly/visit medians). Retrieved Sep 6, 2026, from https://assets.carescout.com/x/8fcb50422f/282102.pdf
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