Dementia Care in Delaware: A Caregiver's Guide (2026)

The number of Delawareans with Alzheimer's is projected to reach about 23,000 in 2025, cared for largely by family.

Dementia caregiving is its own kind of hard: the long arc, the behavioral changes, the safety worries, the grief that starts before any loss. This guide maps the Delaware-specific help available in 2026, from the free 24/7 helpline to Medicaid respite to the programs that can pay you for the care you already provide.

You do not have to navigate this alone, and you do not have to fund all of it from your savings.

Delaware Dementia Caregiving, by the Numbers

The number of Delawareans living with Alzheimer's disease and related dementias is projected to reach about 23,000 in 2025, up from an estimated 19,000 in 2020, an increase of roughly 21 percent. Family members provide most of their day-to-day care.

If the work feels overwhelming, that is not a personal failing. It is the reality of a condition that demands more, for longer, than almost any other.

Where to Start

When a diagnosis lands, or when caregiving starts to outpace what you can manage alone, two contacts open most doors in Delaware:

1. The Alzheimer's Association 24/7 Helpline: 1-800-272-3900. Staffed around the clock, it offers confidential emotional support, crisis assistance, dementia-specific guidance, and referrals to local Delaware programs, in more than 200 languages. There is no cost and no eligibility test.
2. Your local Area Agency on Aging. Delaware's AAAs help you understand what Medicare and Medicaid cover, connect you to respite, and provide caregiver counseling and training.

Delaware's Dementia Support Infrastructure

Delaware's Division of Services for Aging and Adults with Physical Disabilities (DSAAPD), reachable at 1-800-223-9074, provides caregiver counseling, support groups, training, and respite, including through the Family Caregiver Support Program. The Alzheimer's Association serves Delaware through its Delaware Valley chapter with support groups, education, and care consultations.

Who Pays for Dementia Care in Delaware

Delaware Medicaid (Diamond State Health Plan Plus)

For Delawareans who qualify, the Diamond State Health Plan Plus (DSHP-Plus) is a managed-care Medicaid program that provides long-term care for older adults and people with physical disabilities, including home and community-based services to delay nursing-home admission such as adult day care, home-delivered meals, personal care, personal emergency response systems, and respite care. It is administered by the Division of Medicaid and Medical Assistance and the Division of Services for Aging and Adults with Physical Disabilities (DSAAPD). People with dementia may qualify if they meet a nursing-facility level of care.

Getting Paid to Care for a Loved One With Dementia

Many Delaware dementia caregivers can be paid for the care they provide, through Medicaid self-direction or, for veterans' families, VA programs. The pathways, who can be hired, and the pay are covered in the Delaware paid family caregiver guide.

VA Benefits (for Veterans)

If the person you care for is a veteran enrolled in VA health care, the VA's Program of Comprehensive Assistance for Family Caregivers (PCAFC) pays a tax-free monthly stipend to the primary family caregiver, including a spouse, and the Aid and Attendance pension can help pay for dementia care. Call the VA Caregiver Support Line at 1-855-260-3274.

Medicare

Medicare covers dementia-related doctor visits, a cognitive assessment, and limited short-term skilled home health and hospice, but it does not pay for long-term custodial care or a family caregiver's time. The new GUIDE Model, where available, adds dementia care navigation and some respite for traditional-Medicare beneficiaries; ask your neurologist or the Alzheimer's Association helpline whether a GUIDE provider operates near you.

Respite for Dementia Caregivers

Respite is what makes the long haul survivable. In Delaware, respite comes from Medicaid for eligible members, the National Family Caregiver Support Program through your Area Agency on Aging (free, no income test), and adult day programs. For the full picture, see Respite Care in Delaware.

A few days a week at a dementia-capable adult day program often does double duty: it gives you reliable hours back, and the structure, activity, and social contact frequently improve sleep, mood, and behavior for the person with dementia.

Safety, Behavior, and Planning

Dementia raises issues other caregiving does not: wandering, driving, sundowning, and the legal and financial planning that needs to happen while your loved one can still participate. The Alzheimer's Association 24/7 Helpline (1-800-272-3900) can walk you through behavioral strategies and connect you to local resources. Early legal planning, a durable power of attorney, advance directives, and a long-term-care plan, is far easier done sooner than later.

Learn More

• Understanding the Stages of Dementia: What to Expect
• Managing Dementia Behaviors: Agitation, Aggression, and Sundowning
• Communicating With Someone Who Has Dementia
• Daily Care for Someone With Dementia: Bathing, Dressing, and Eating
• Dementia, Wandering, and Home Safety
• Late-Stage and End-of-Life Dementia Care
• How to Get Paid as a Family Caregiver in Delaware
• Respite Care in Delaware
• Caregiver Programs in Delaware: A Complete Directory
• Caregiver Burnout: Signs, Stages, and How to Get Support
• Medicaid Planning Strategies

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