In Massachusetts, you can often get paid to care for a family member, whether that's an aging parent or a disabled relative you're already helping. The work is real, and asking to be paid for it is reasonable.
Massachusetts has two main MassHealth-funded ways for a family member to be paid, plus options for veteran families. This guide walks through each pathway, who qualifies, how the pay actually works, and the one rule that disappoints people most: a spouse usually can't be the paid caregiver, but an adult child or other relative often can.
In This Guide
- The 60-second version
- First: the MassHealth prerequisite
- Pathway 1: get paid through the MassHealth PCA program
- Pathway 2: Adult Foster Care
- Pathway 3: VA benefits for veteran families
- Massachusetts Paid Family and Medical Leave
- How much a family caregiver gets paid
- Who can and can't be paid
- How to start getting paid to care for a family member
- Where to get help
The 60-Second Version
In Massachusetts, the two ways a family member gets paid to provide care both run through MassHealth. If you come and go and help with daily tasks, the PCA program is usually the fit: the person receiving care hires you as their personal care attendant, and MassHealth provides the funds for hiring PCAs. If you live with the person and provide daily care, Adult Foster Care pays you a stipend through an AFC provider agency. In both, a spouse can't be the paid caregiver, but many other relatives can. Veteran families have additional options, and Massachusetts Paid Family and Medical Leave can cover time off (though it's leave, not an ongoing caregiver wage).
| Pathway | How you're paid | Best fit | Can a spouse be paid? |
|---|---|---|---|
| MassHealth PCA program | MassHealth funds; the member hires and directs the attendant | Part-time, come-and-go help | No |
| MassHealth Adult Foster Care | Stipend from the AFC provider to a live-in caregiver | Living together, daily care | No |
| VA Aid and Attendance | Added monthly income to a veteran, usable for care | Wartime veteran or surviving spouse | Income can pay most family caregivers |
| MA Paid Family and Medical Leave | Job-protected partially paid leave | A working caregiver needing time off | Yes (it's leave, not caregiver pay) |
First: the MassHealth Prerequisite
Before either of the two paid-caregiving pathways opens up, the person receiving care needs to be a MassHealth member. MassHealth is Massachusetts' Medicaid program, and both the PCA program and Adult Foster Care are MassHealth benefits, so the care recipient's eligibility is what unlocks them, not the caregiver's.Office of the Law Revision Counsel, U.S. House of Representatives. (n.d.). 42 U.S.C. 3030s - Definitions (Older Americans Act, National Family Caregiver Support Program). uscode.house.gov. Retrieved Sep 4, 2026, from https://uscode.house.gov/view.xhtml?req=granuleid:USC-prelim-title42-section3030s&num=0&edition=prelim If your loved one isn't enrolled yet, that's the first step; if they're close to but over the income or asset limits, ask about a spend-down or other eligibility pathways rather than assuming the door is closed. Veteran families can also look at the VA options below.
Pathway 1: Get Paid Through the MassHealth PCA Program
The Personal Care Attendant (PCA) program is self-directed, which is the part families like. The MassHealth member is the employer: you recruit, hire, train, schedule, and manage your own attendants, and MassHealth provides the funds for hiring PCAs to help with activities of daily living.U.S. Government Publishing Office. (n.d.). 42 CFR 440.167 Personal care services - eCFR. ecfr.gov. Retrieved Sep 4, 2026, from https://www.ecfr.gov/current/title-42/section-440.167 Because you choose your attendants, you can hire a relative the rules allow, often the adult child or sibling already doing the work. The limits to remember: your paid PCA can't be your spouse, the parent of a minor member, any other legally responsible relative, your surrogate or administrative proxy, or your foster parent. A PCA must also be at least 16, have a current and valid PCA provider number, and sign a PCA provider agreement.U.S. Government Publishing Office. (n.d.). 42 CFR 440.167 Personal care services - eCFR. ecfr.gov. Retrieved Sep 4, 2026, from https://www.ecfr.gov/current/title-42/section-440.167
How to get started. To get more information or enroll, the member contacts a Personal Care Management (PCM) agency in their area.Office of the Law Revision Counsel, U.S. House of Representatives. (n.d.). 42 U.S.C. 3030s - Definitions (Older Americans Act, National Family Caregiver Support Program). uscode.house.gov. Retrieved Sep 4, 2026, from https://uscode.house.gov/view.xhtml?req=granuleid:USC-prelim-title42-section3030s&num=0&edition=prelim
How the pay works. MassHealth provides the funds, and the member, as the PCA consumer-employer, hires the attendant. One rule to know: a PCA can't be receiving compensation from any other person or entity for the same activity time.U.S. Government Publishing Office. (n.d.). 42 CFR 440.167 Personal care services - eCFR. ecfr.gov. Retrieved Sep 4, 2026, from https://www.ecfr.gov/current/title-42/section-440.167 For more information, the member can contact a PCM agency in their area.Office of the Law Revision Counsel, U.S. House of Representatives. (n.d.). 42 U.S.C. 3030s - Definitions (Older Americans Act, National Family Caregiver Support Program). uscode.house.gov. Retrieved Sep 4, 2026, from https://uscode.house.gov/view.xhtml?req=granuleid:USC-prelim-title42-section3030s&num=0&edition=prelim
Pathway 2: MassHealth Adult Foster Care
Adult Foster Care (AFC) fits when a caregiver and the person they care for live together. The caregiver provides daily personal care, an AFC provider agency provides nursing oversight and care management, and the AFC provider pays the caregiver a stipend.Commonwealth of Massachusetts. (n.d.). MassHealth Adult Foster Care program fact sheet. mass.gov. Retrieved Sep 3, 2026, from https://www.mass.gov/info-details/masshealth-adult-foster-care-program-fact-sheet The caregiver can be related or unrelated, and you can live in either person's home. A relative can be the paid caregiver, with these exceptions: not a spouse, not the parent of a member who's a minor, and not any other legally responsible relative. MassHealth's AFC fact sheet also excludes legal guardians, so a relative who is the member's court-appointed guardian should confirm with the AFC provider before counting on being paid. The caregiver must be at least 18.Commonwealth of Massachusetts. (n.d.). MassHealth Adult Foster Care program fact sheet. mass.gov. Retrieved Sep 3, 2026, from https://www.mass.gov/info-details/masshealth-adult-foster-care-program-fact-sheet
How eligibility and pay work. To qualify, the member must be 16 or older, have AFC ordered by their primary care provider, and need daily hands-on help or cueing and supervision with at least one of six activities: bathing, dressing, toileting, transferring, mobility, or eating. The AFC provider must get MassHealth's prior authorization before the first date of service and again each year. The provider pays the caregiver a stipend at compensation levels for which MassHealth may set a minimum, and AFC rates don't include any amount for room and board. Ask the AFC provider what stipend would apply to your situation.Commonwealth of Massachusetts. (n.d.). MassHealth Adult Foster Care program fact sheet. mass.gov. Retrieved Sep 3, 2026, from https://www.mass.gov/info-details/masshealth-adult-foster-care-program-fact-sheet Our guide to structured family caregiving compares Adult Foster Care with similar live-in programs in other states.
Pathway 3: VA Benefits for Veteran Families
If the person needing care is a wartime veteran or a veteran's surviving spouse, VA Aid and Attendance adds money to their monthly pension that can be used to pay for care, including care a family member provides. In 2026 (rates effective December 1, 2025 through November 30, 2026), Aid and Attendance is capped at $29,093 a year for a single veteran with no dependents, and the ceiling is higher with dependents, for example $34,488 a year for a veteran with one dependent. For a surviving spouse with no dependents, the ceiling is $18,697 a year. Each figure is a ceiling rather than a flat award: VA bases the payment on the difference between the claimant's income for VA purposes and the applicable maximum, so a veteran or surviving spouse with other income receives less than the amount shown. Some expenses, like non-reimbursable medical expenses, may reduce income for VA purposes. These are annual amounts; VA figures the monthly payment by subtracting countable income from the annual maximum and dividing by 12.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Current Pension Rates For Veterans. va.gov. Retrieved Sep 3, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/pension/veterans-pension-rates/ The pension goes to the veteran or surviving spouse, who can then pay a family caregiver, ideally under a simple written caregiver agreement.
The VA also runs Veteran-Directed Care, which gives veterans a flexible budget for services that can be managed by the veteran or the family caregiver, and lets them hire their own personal care aides, which VA says "might include their own family member or neighbor." All enrolled veterans are eligible if they meet the clinical need for the service and it is available, but the program is only available in certain locations, so talk with the veteran's VA social worker about whether it's offered near you.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (2022). Veteran-Directed Care (VA Geriatrics and Extended Care fact sheet, revised February 2022). va.gov. Retrieved Sep 26, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/geriatrics/docs/Veteran-Directed_Care.pdf Help applying for VA benefits is free through accredited Veterans Service Officers, so no one should charge you to file.
Massachusetts Paid Family and Medical Leave
Massachusetts Paid Family and Medical Leave (PFML) is different from the programs above: it gives most Massachusetts workers up to 12 weeks of job-protected, partially paid family leave in a benefit year to care for a family member with a serious health condition, run by the Department of Family and Medical Leave. It's time off from your job with partial wage replacement, not an ongoing wage for being a caregiver. One catch: work performed for your own son, daughter, or spouse is excluded from PFML, so a job working for them isn't covered.Commonwealth of Massachusetts. (n.d.). PFML: About family leave to care for a family member - Mass.gov. mass.gov. Retrieved Oct 2, 2026, from https://www.mass.gov/info-details/pfml-about-family-leave-to-care-for-a-family-member For a working family member who needs to step back during a crisis, it's worth knowing about alongside the MassHealth pathways.
How Much a Family Caregiver Gets Paid
The honest answer is that it depends on the pathway. For the two MassHealth programs, this guide points you to who to contact rather than quoting a figure that may already be out of date:
- PCA program: MassHealth provides the funds for hiring PCAs, and the member is the employer.U.S. Government Publishing Office. (n.d.). 42 CFR 440.167 Personal care services - eCFR. ecfr.gov. Retrieved Sep 4, 2026, from https://www.ecfr.gov/current/title-42/section-440.167 For more information, contact a PCM agency in your area.Office of the Law Revision Counsel, U.S. House of Representatives. (n.d.). 42 U.S.C. 3030s - Definitions (Older Americans Act, National Family Caregiver Support Program). uscode.house.gov. Retrieved Sep 4, 2026, from https://uscode.house.gov/view.xhtml?req=granuleid:USC-prelim-title42-section3030s&num=0&edition=prelim
- Adult Foster Care: a stipend the AFC provider pays, at compensation levels for which MassHealth may set a minimum; AFC rates don't cover room and board. Ask the AFC provider for the current amount.Commonwealth of Massachusetts. (n.d.). MassHealth Adult Foster Care program fact sheet. mass.gov. Retrieved Sep 3, 2026, from https://www.mass.gov/info-details/masshealth-adult-foster-care-program-fact-sheet
- VA Aid and Attendance: in 2026, a ceiling of $29,093 a year for a single veteran and $34,488 for a veteran with one dependent, reduced by the veteran's income for VA purposes and paid to the veteran, who can then pay the caregiver.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Current Pension Rates For Veterans. va.gov. Retrieved Sep 3, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/pension/veterans-pension-rates/
Who Can and Can't Be Paid
The rule that trips up the most families is about spouses. In both the PCA program and Adult Foster Care, a husband or wife cannot be the paid caregiver, and neither can a legally responsible relative or the parent of a member who is a minor.U.S. Government Publishing Office. (n.d.). 42 CFR 440.167 Personal care services - eCFR. ecfr.gov. Retrieved Sep 4, 2026, from https://www.ecfr.gov/current/title-42/section-440.167,Commonwealth of Massachusetts. (n.d.). MassHealth Adult Foster Care program fact sheet. mass.gov. Retrieved Sep 3, 2026, from https://www.mass.gov/info-details/masshealth-adult-foster-care-program-fact-sheet The PCA program also bars the member's surrogate, administrative proxy, or foster parent, and MassHealth's AFC fact sheet excludes legal guardians.U.S. Government Publishing Office. (n.d.). 42 CFR 440.167 Personal care services - eCFR. ecfr.gov. Retrieved Sep 4, 2026, from https://www.ecfr.gov/current/title-42/section-440.167,Commonwealth of Massachusetts. (n.d.). MassHealth Adult Foster Care program fact sheet. mass.gov. Retrieved Sep 3, 2026, from https://www.mass.gov/info-details/masshealth-adult-foster-care-program-fact-sheet But an adult child, a sibling, a grandchild, a niece or nephew, or even a friend usually can be paid. So the daughter caring for her mother can often get paid; the wife caring for her husband usually can't through these programs, though VA benefits or PFML may still help.
How to Start Getting Paid to Care for a Family Member
Confirm MassHealth eligibility
For the PCA program or Adult Foster Care, the person receiving care must be a MassHealth member. If they're not enrolled, apply first (the MassHealth Customer Service Center is at 800-841-2900, TDD/TTY 711); if they're over the income or asset limits, ask about a spend-down or other pathways rather than assuming they don't qualify.U.S. Government Publishing Office. (2024). 42 U.S.C. 1396p(c)(1)(B)(i) — Liens, adjustments and recoveries, and transfers of assets (United States Code, 2024 Edition, GPO govinfo; the federal 60-month look-back date the Massachusetts regulation implements; independent-domain corroboration). govinfo.gov. Retrieved Oct 15, 2026, from https://www.govinfo.gov/content/pkg/USCODE-2024-title42/html/USCODE-2024-title42-chap7-subchapXIX-sec1396p.htm
Pick the pathway that fits
Come-and-go help with daily tasks points to the PCA program. Living together and providing daily hands-on care points to Adult Foster Care.
Contact the agency
For the PCA program, the member contacts a PCM agency in their area to get more information or enroll. For Adult Foster Care, the member's primary care provider must order AFC, and the AFC provider must get MassHealth's prior authorization before services start.
Get set up to be paid
Under the PCA program, you'll need a current and valid PCA provider number and a signed PCA provider agreement. Under Adult Foster Care, the AFC provider pays the caregiver's stipend.
Veteran family? Add the VA options
If your loved one is a wartime veteran or surviving spouse, contact a Veterans Service Officer (free) about Aid and Attendance, and ask the veteran's VA social worker whether Veteran-Directed Care is available in your area, alongside, or instead of, the MassHealth pathways.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (2022). Veteran-Directed Care (VA Geriatrics and Extended Care fact sheet, revised February 2022). va.gov. Retrieved Sep 26, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/geriatrics/docs/Veteran-Directed_Care.pdf
Where to Get Help
Frequently Asked Questions
Can I get paid to take care of my parent in Massachusetts?
Often, yes. If your parent has MassHealth, you can usually be paid as their Personal Care Attendant, or as their Adult Foster Care caregiver if you live together. Adult children are among the relatives the rules allow.
Can I be paid to care for my spouse in Massachusetts?
Generally no. In both the PCA program and Adult Foster Care, a spouse can't be the paid caregiver. If your spouse is a veteran, look at the VA options above. Massachusetts Paid Family and Medical Leave lists a spouse among the family members you can take leave to care for, so it can cover time off from a job.Commonwealth of Massachusetts. (n.d.). PFML: About family leave to care for a family member - Mass.gov. mass.gov. Retrieved Oct 2, 2026, from https://www.mass.gov/info-details/pfml-about-family-leave-to-care-for-a-family-member
How much does a family caregiver get paid in Massachusetts?
It depends on the program. In the PCA program, MassHealth provides the funds and the member hires the attendant; Adult Foster Care pays the live-in caregiver a stipend through the AFC provider. For more information, contact a PCM agency in your area or the AFC provider.
What does a relative need to be paid as a PCA?
A PCA must be at least 16, have a current and valid PCA provider number, sign a PCA provider agreement, be physically able to do the tasks, and be willing to receive training and supervision. A spouse, a legally responsible relative, or the member's surrogate can't be the paid PCA.
Do I need MassHealth to get paid as a caregiver?
For the PCA program and Adult Foster Care, yes, the person receiving care must be a MassHealth member. Veteran families can also look at the VA options above. PFML eligibility depends on your work and on meeting an earnings requirement.Commonwealth of Massachusetts. (n.d.). PFML: About family leave to care for a family member - Mass.gov. mass.gov. Retrieved Oct 2, 2026, from https://www.mass.gov/info-details/pfml-about-family-leave-to-care-for-a-family-member
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