In-home care in Connecticut is among the most expensive in the country, and VA Aid and Attendance can help a wartime veteran or surviving spouse pay for it. It's a monthly cash benefit paid directly to the veteran, who decides how to spend it: a home health aide, a homemaker, or even a family member providing the care. For someone who needs help with daily activities like bathing or dressing, it can make staying at home possible.
This guide explains what in-home care costs in Connecticut, how much Aid and Attendance pays, who qualifies, and how the benefit works alongside HUSKY Health, the state's Medicaid program.
In This Guide
- Key Takeaways
- How Much In-Home Care Costs in Connecticut
- How Aid and Attendance Helps Pay for In-Home Care
- How In-Home Care Costs Lower Your Countable Income
- Who Qualifies
- Using Aid and Attendance to Pay a Family Caregiver
- How Aid and Attendance Works with Connecticut Medicaid
- How to Apply and Get Free Help
- Frequently Asked Questions
- Learn More
How Much In-Home Care Costs in Connecticut
In-home care in Connecticut runs above the national average. According to the CareScout 2025 Cost of Care Survey (released March 2026), a non-medical caregiver in Connecticut costs about $82,368 per year (roughly $6,864 per month), based on a 44-hour-per-week schedule. The 2025 survey merged the former homemaker and home health aide categories into a single non-medical caregiver line.businesswire.com. (2025). CareScout Releases 2025 Cost of Care Data for Connecticut. Retrieved Jun 25, 2026, from https://www.businesswire.com/news/home/20260302947537/en/CareScout-Releases-2025-Cost-of-Care-Data-for-Connecticut Connecticut's facility costs, especially nursing homes, run far above national figures, with a semi-private nursing home room around $182,500 a year.businesswire.com. (2025). CareScout Releases 2025 Cost of Care Data for Connecticut. Retrieved Jun 25, 2026, from https://www.businesswire.com/news/home/20260302947537/en/CareScout-Releases-2025-Cost-of-Care-Data-for-Connecticut
Costs are higher in the Bridgeport and Fairfield County areas than in the rest of Connecticut, and they climb as care needs grow.businesswire.com. (2025). CareScout Releases 2025 Cost of Care Data for Connecticut. Retrieved Jun 25, 2026, from https://www.businesswire.com/news/home/20260302947537/en/CareScout-Releases-2025-Cost-of-Care-Data-for-Connecticut This is exactly the kind of expense Aid and Attendance is designed to offset.
How Aid and Attendance Helps Pay for In-Home Care
Aid and Attendance is an increased monthly VA pension for wartime veterans and surviving spouses who need help with daily activities.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Current Pension Rates For Veterans. va.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/pension/veterans-pension-rates/ It is paid as cash directly to the veteran, who decides how to use it. There is no requirement to spend it at a particular agency, so it can pay for a home health aide, a homemaker, or a family caregiver.
| Category | Monthly Amount |
|---|---|
| Veteran alone | Up to $2,424 |
| Veteran with spouse | Up to $2,874 |
| Surviving spouse | Up to $1,558 |
At up to $2,424 a month for a veteran, the benefit covers a meaningful share of Connecticut's roughly $6,864 monthly cost for a non-medical caregiver, and at up to $2,874 for a veteran with a spouse it covers even more.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Current Pension Rates For Veterans. va.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/pension/veterans-pension-rates/,businesswire.com. (2025). CareScout Releases 2025 Cost of Care Data for Connecticut. Retrieved Jun 25, 2026, from https://www.businesswire.com/news/home/20260302947537/en/CareScout-Releases-2025-Cost-of-Care-Data-for-Connecticut Keep in mind the VA pays the veteran; the veteran arranges and pays for the care.
How In-Home Care Costs Lower Your Countable Income
VA pension, including the Aid and Attendance increase, is a needs-based benefit: the VA pays the difference between your countable income and a set annual limit.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Current Pension Rates For Veterans. va.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/pension/veterans-pension-rates/ Continuing, out-of-pocket care costs, such as paying a home health aide, count as unreimbursed medical expenses (UMEs) that reduce the income the VA counts, which is why many veterans who look "too rich" on paper still qualify once their care bills are subtracted.
Only the portion of those expenses above 5% of the applicable annual pension limit is deductible.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Current Pension Rates For Veterans. va.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/pension/veterans-pension-rates/ For 2026 that floor is about $872 per year for a veteran with no dependents and $1,141 per year for a veteran with one dependent.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Current Pension Rates For Veterans. va.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/pension/veterans-pension-rates/ So if a veteran pays $82,368 a year for in-home care, nearly all of it counts against income once the first roughly $872 is set aside.businesswire.com. (2025). CareScout Releases 2025 Cost of Care Data for Connecticut. Retrieved Jun 25, 2026, from https://www.businesswire.com/news/home/20260302947537/en/CareScout-Releases-2025-Cost-of-Care-Data-for-Connecticut In-home and attendant care qualify as deductible expenses when the veteran has a documented need for that care.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Current Pension Rates For Veterans. va.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/pension/veterans-pension-rates/
Who Qualifies
To qualify for Aid and Attendance, a veteran generally must:U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Eligibility For Veterans Pension. va.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/pension/eligibility/
- Have served at least 90 days of active duty with at least one day during a wartime period
- Be 65 or older, or permanently and totally disabled
- Need help with daily activities such as bathing, dressing, or feeding, or be housebound
- Have a net worth below $163,699 (this limit includes assets and annual income but excludes the primary home and vehicle)U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Current Pension Rates For Veterans. va.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/pension/veterans-pension-rates/
The VA enforces a 3-year look-back on assets transferred for less than fair market value before filing.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Eligibility For Veterans Pension. va.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/pension/eligibility/ A surviving spouse can qualify under the Survivors Pension using the same net worth limit.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Current Pension Rates For Veterans. va.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/pension/veterans-pension-rates/
Using Aid and Attendance to Pay a Family Caregiver
Many families want to keep care in the family, and there are two ways VA benefits make that possible. First, because Aid and Attendance is cash paid to the veteran, the veteran can simply use it to pay a relative who provides care.
Second, the Veteran-Directed Care (VDC) program gives the veteran a flexible monthly budget to hire their own caregivers, including family members.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Veteran-Directed Care - Geriatrics and Extended Care. va.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/geriatrics/pages/Veteran-Directed_Care.asp The veteran (or their representative) decides who provides care and how to spend the budget, and a financial management service handles payroll and taxes.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Veteran-Directed Care - Geriatrics and Extended Care. va.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/geriatrics/pages/Veteran-Directed_Care.asp Unlike many Medicaid programs, VDC has no blanket ban on hiring a spouse.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Veteran-Directed Care - Geriatrics and Extended Care. va.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/geriatrics/pages/Veteran-Directed_Care.asp To ask about VDC, contact your local VA medical center's social work or geriatrics department.
How Aid and Attendance Works with Connecticut Medicaid
For Connecticut seniors who need long-term care, VA Aid and Attendance can interact with Medicaid (HUSKY Health, administered by the Connecticut Department of Social Services); long-term-care Medicaid for aged, blind, and disabled residents is HUSKY C.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Aid And Attendance Benefits And Housebound Allowance. va.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/pension/aid-attendance-housebound/ Under general federal rules, a veteran's basic VA pension is counted as income, but the portion attributable to unreimbursed medical expenses, including the Aid and Attendance increment paid to cover care, is generally treated as reimbursement for medical care rather than countable income.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Aid And Attendance Benefits And Housebound Allowance. va.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/pension/aid-attendance-housebound/
Because the precise treatment depends on the program (HUSKY C income limits, the medically-needy spend-down, and how DSS counts each component) and on your circumstances, confirm with Connecticut DSS or an accredited representative before relying on any specific outcome.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Aid And Attendance Benefits And Housebound Allowance. va.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/pension/aid-attendance-housebound/
How to Apply and Get Free Help
To apply for Aid and Attendance, submit VA Form 21-2680 (Examination for Housebound Status or Permanent Need for Regular Aid and Attendance), with a doctor's exam documenting the need for help.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). VA.gov - About VA Form 21-2680. va.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/find-forms/about-form-21-2680/ If you are not already receiving a VA pension, also file VA Form 21P-527EZ (Application for Veterans Pension).U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). VA.gov - About VA Form 21-2680. va.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/find-forms/about-form-21-2680/ Claims commonly take 3 to 6 months.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). VA.gov - About VA Form 21-2680. va.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/find-forms/about-form-21-2680/
Don't do this alone. The Connecticut Department of Veterans Affairs Office of Advocacy and Assistance staffs accredited Veteran Service Officers who represent veterans on VA pension and Aid and Attendance and Housebound claims at no cost.State of Connecticut. (n.d.). DVA Office of Advocacy and Assistance District Offices. portal.ct.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://portal.ct.gov/dva/advocacy-and-assistance You can reach them through portal.ct.gov/dva/advocacy-and-assistance or by calling 1-866-9CT-VETS (1-866-928-8387); the Veteran Services Support Center is at 196 West Street, Rocky Hill.State of Connecticut. (n.d.). DVA Office of Advocacy and Assistance District Offices. portal.ct.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://portal.ct.gov/dva/advocacy-and-assistance Each Connecticut municipality may also appoint a Municipal Veterans Representative to help local veterans apply for benefits.State of Connecticut. (n.d.). DVA Office of Advocacy and Assistance District Offices. portal.ct.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://portal.ct.gov/dva/advocacy-and-assistance
If your claim is denied. A denial letter explains why the VA turned down the claim and the evidence it weighed. You have one year from the date on that decision letter to ask for a review, with three options: a Supplemental Claim (submit new and relevant evidence), a Higher-Level Review (a more senior reviewer looks at the same evidence), or an appeal to the Board of Veterans' Appeals.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). VA.gov - Decision reviews and appeals. va.gov. Retrieved Jun 26, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/decision-reviews/ The same CT DVA accredited Veteran Service Officers who file the initial claim can represent you on that appeal at no cost.State of Connecticut. (n.d.). DVA Office of Advocacy and Assistance District Offices. portal.ct.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://portal.ct.gov/dva/advocacy-and-assistance
Frequently Asked Questions
Can I use Aid and Attendance to pay for a home health aide in Connecticut?
Yes. Aid and Attendance is paid as cash to the veteran, who can use it for a home health aide, a homemaker, or other in-home care.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Current Pension Rates For Veterans. va.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/pension/veterans-pension-rates/ With in-home care in Connecticut running about $6,864 a month, the benefit of up to $2,424 (or up to $2,874 with a spouse) covers a meaningful share of the cost.businesswire.com. (2025). CareScout Releases 2025 Cost of Care Data for Connecticut. Retrieved Jun 25, 2026, from https://www.businesswire.com/news/home/20260302947537/en/CareScout-Releases-2025-Cost-of-Care-Data-for-Connecticut
Does the VA provide the in-home care directly?
No. The VA pays the veteran a monthly cash benefit; the veteran arranges and pays for the care.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Current Pension Rates For Veterans. va.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/pension/veterans-pension-rates/ That's what makes the benefit flexible enough to cover an agency aide or a family caregiver.
Can my income be too high to qualify if I'm paying for care?
Often not. Out-of-pocket in-home care counts as an unreimbursed medical expense that lowers the income the VA counts, but only the portion above about $872 a year (or $1,141 with one dependent) is deductible.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Current Pension Rates For Veterans. va.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/pension/veterans-pension-rates/ Large care bills can reduce countable income enough to qualify.
Can I get both Aid and Attendance and Connecticut Medicaid?
Yes, the two are separate programs and can be received together.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Aid And Attendance Benefits And Housebound Allowance. va.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/pension/aid-attendance-housebound/ Because the income treatment under HUSKY C depends on your circumstances, confirm with Connecticut DSS or an accredited representative.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). Aid And Attendance Benefits And Housebound Allowance. va.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/pension/aid-attendance-housebound/
What if my Aid and Attendance claim is denied?
You have one year from the date on the decision letter to request a review. You can file a Supplemental Claim with new evidence, ask for a Higher-Level Review of the same evidence, or appeal to the Board of Veterans' Appeals.U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. (n.d.). VA.gov - Decision reviews and appeals. va.gov. Retrieved Jun 26, 2026, from https://www.va.gov/decision-reviews/ Connecticut's accredited Veteran Service Officers can represent you on the appeal at no cost.State of Connecticut. (n.d.). DVA Office of Advocacy and Assistance District Offices. portal.ct.gov. Retrieved Jun 24, 2026, from https://portal.ct.gov/dva/advocacy-and-assistance
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